Quoting ℓise ♥:" If he's verbally putting you down, is it worth staying? If you've tried to make it work and it's still ... [snip!] ... and was verbally abusive. I stayed for DD, biggest mistake of my life. He ended up meeting a new girl and kicked me out."
i wonder if we both tried harder maybe it would but then i think if its not working yet will it ever.
i think of pros and cons.
i think sometimes is all this worth staying, i think what will his parents do if i left, we all live together and all hae been there supporting eachother though the tuff times. i dont know why i feel bad if i leave im leavign them all high and dry. i would be upset if they said oh wel are moving bye.
then again they are grown ups and should be able to handle it but with his parents only getting $500 a month( his mom babysits) and his dad waiting on social securty they couldnt make it nor do they really have anywhere to go.
friends tell me to just leave & i want to. but i donno why i want to give it one last shot. maybe take a day or two just him and me alone away from everyone being able to talk and relax maybe a hotel or soemthing. ugh
i know what his dad growing up drank and abused them hes been sobor for over a year now. i know he has anamosity toward him that might be a problem things werent bad when it was him & me living together. super hard =(