can i just... UPDATE!!

smurfing bitch for a moment?! im due in 12 days i have been miserable for a month now and cant get comfortable and im starting to get headaches everyday and feel sick to my stomach and just all this smurfing bullsmurf and im ready to have Gage! like today! i know i might get bitched at for saying i would like him here a whole 12 days early but babys have come wayyyy earlier and lived and some way later and not lived so no one knows so i dont wana hear it! im just straight smurfing over everything not to mention i had my baby shower saturday 4 people came and i got 2 small packs of size 1 diapers a bottle rack and brush that i already had a few outfits none were newborn and a bath that i dont use to bathe my kids!! like for real im kinda freaing out too cause im not with my kids dad and he has only bought a diaper bag and 2 outfits and just spent $14,000 on a new car but cant give me smurf to go get the rest of what i need for the baby. i dont know what to do im getting ahold of everyone i know to get help and even some of my guy friends are offering to help me. but i feel like they only wana help cause they wana be with me ehh.. i dont know what to do im pissed off im stressed out im over being pregnant im not comfortable i am getting dizzy all the time now too and i just want to scream and cry and im finding it hard to be nice to people.! anyways sorry i just wanted to vent and i am not prepared for baby!



UPDATE! so my cousin came down today and i was expecting him to go with me to look at baby stuff and get me just a couple things well he spent like $500 and got me almost everything i needed. i just need a pack n play stroller and swing and some more diapers and maybe a little more clothes and just some random little things but i am ready for baby now i got him a rock and play sleeper and a boumcer... some more bottles a bunch of wipes a bigg box of size 1 diapers a few teethers some sleepers a robe some wash clothes all the bathing supplie!! god new i needed help and he sent it! im so grateful to have my family & i think my momma is gonna take me to get a pack n play! anyways bad day turnned great and now ready for bed!!

Why would you expect anyone else to help you buy stuff for the baby?

And techincally, the father doesn't have to do a thing until you take him to court.

Suck it up. Pregnancy is almost over. You'll have the newb in your arms soon. And everything will get figured out eventually

Quoting Baby peaches mama:" smurfing bitch for a moment?! im due in 12 days i have been miserable for a month now and cant get comfortable ... [snip!] ... and cry and im finding it hard to be nice to people.! anyways sorry i just wanted to vent and i am not prepared for baby!"

Take a deep breath. I'm sure everything will be fine. Are you working anywhere?

Take some deep breaths, damn lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Why would you expect anyone else to help you buy stuff for the baby? And techincally, the father doesn't ... [snip!] ... Suck it up. Pregnancy is almost over. You'll have the newb in your arms soon. And everything will get figured out eventually"</blockquote>

 

Yikes!

You're not prepared for baby, but you want baby here NOW?! Makes sense.

It sounds like you need a day at the spa to relax. You're way too worked up.

Whey aren't YOU buying things for YOUR baby?? I don't get why you feel entitled to other people buying the stuff for you, even the BD.  

I think you are being slightly rude when it comes to your shower. Those people didn't have to buy you smurf or even come but they did, and yet you bitch about everything they got you. News flash I had 25 people at my shower and so many clothes I couldn't get them all in his closet and dresser, and guess what NONE of them were newborn clothes. Maybe you should have saved some money back to prepare for the baby you are about to have and not rely on the baby daddy to pay for everything. What do you plan on doing once your LO is here??

Quoting Javi's Mami*[Bazinga!]:" Take a deep breath. I'm sure everything will be fine. Are you working anywhere?"

no i just got off bedrest 2 weeks ago... but i plan on working as soon as i get the ok from the dr after my 6 week appointment i have a few jobs lined up

Quoting Squeaky McGee [16 wks]:" Yikes! You're not prepared for baby, but you want baby here NOW?! Makes sense. It sounds like you need a day at the spa to relax. You're way too worked up."

Right?
And OP, you're complaining because you didn't get enough presents at your shower? Okay. How about being thankful for the things you did get.
Apply for WIC, food stamps, etc.

Quoting Squeaky McGee [16 wks]:" Yikes! You're not prepared for baby, but you want baby here NOW?! Makes sense. It sounds like you need a day at the spa to relax. You're way too worked up."

i know it makes no sense at all i mean i have what i need for like a week maybe 2 if i have him but long term not so much lol it will all come together.

Quoting Baby peaches mama:" no i just got off bedrest 2 weeks ago... but i plan on working as soon as i get the ok from the dr after my 6 week appointment i have a few jobs lined up"

Do you have your own place or are you staying with someone? Sorry for all the questions just trying to make conversation. Have you applied for food stamps/wic anything?

Quoting He's my Momma's boy:" I think you are being slightly rude when it comes to your shower. Those people didn't have to buy you ... [snip!] ... you are about to have and not rely on the baby daddy to pay for everything. What do you plan on doing once your LO is here??"

i didnt mean to sound rude i just had so many people aying they would be coming and i spent so much money on the shower and gifts for the gusts that if i would have known the turn out i could have saved some money and spent it on baby. believe me i am more than thankful for who came because i love all who came and your right they didnt have to come i was just frustrated with the turn out but when i actually look deep into my feelings about it, i wouldnt change smurf it showed me who i can count on and who are really there for me. and i have soent money on him but i also have 2 other kids from an ex i also pay for on my own so its been hard to balance so far but i have spent every last penny ive had on this baby even though it isnt much but i try to go to secind hand stores so that i can get the most for my money.. and i plan on working asap after him i dont "want" to but i have to provide for my family. and the only reason i dont want to work asap is id like to spend more than 6 weeks with him but i dont have that optioon as alot of mothers dont and im not too good to work my ass of especially for my kids id do anything to make sure they have what they need.

Quoting Javi's Mami*[Bazinga!]:" Do you have your own place or are you staying with someone? Sorry for all the questions just trying to make conversation. Have you applied for food stamps/wic anything?"

i just moved so i have to reapply for foodstamps and i have to reapply for wic too but i havent gotten wic since i was preg with my daughter.. and i live with my family again right now so that deff helps..