Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Idk your situation... but I would do both."
Quoting Mrs. Tebow:" Oh let me add this, if DH was accepted elsewhere I would have to stop EBF and find a job, which would probably be easier for me because of my qualifications."
Quoting Ivana, expecting #3!:" If he got into an academy in another area I would have him go up on his own and do his thing! And then ... [snip!] ... and we can't move out of state or too far from my daughter's father. But if it is a go for you guys, that is what i would do."
Quoting Ivana, expecting #3!:" why would you have to stop EBF?? you can pump, you know. If you start now you can build a stash for the sitter to use while you are gone and just pump every few hours at work,"
Quoting Mrs. Tebow:" I can't pump. I haven't been able to pump since DD was about a month old."oh ok. That sucks. Well I hope you figure it out.
Quoting Mom2William&Michael:" If he moved and you would have to stop EBF and get a job, why wouldn't you rather just try to find a ... [snip!] ... DH is and would bring home a lot more money. But as I'm the one who gets pregnant and breastfeeds, he's the one that works."
Quoting Mrs. Tebow:" Because we wasted time and money to get him his fire certs, it's what his dream in life is to work for the FD. His certs would just be going to waste if we just stayed here and I was the one working."
Quoting Mrs. Tebow:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BαƚMαɳ:</b>" Why can't he leave and you work then?"</blockquote> He can...that was one of the options."