re: it's heartbreaking

<blockquote><b>Quoting SavageDarling🌙:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:</b>" She just said that she would continue ... [snip!] ... leaving you high and dry to find other arrangements. Is she a certified and registered midwife?? It sounds a little bit off."</blockquote>




She is that's what gets to me, yeah so maybe I can't make 500 payment so like others but we talked about this at the beginning of my care.

Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:" She just said that she would continue prenatal care until I find a provider and that she couldn't deliver. ... [snip!] ... familys needs which can stress me during labor and I'll have a tough labor and if complications arise she can be held liable..."

But you said you arent struggling financially? So what is her reasoning? Ask her why she is under that impression and assure her that you do not have money issues and that trying to find a new person you do not even know, and you havent formed a relationship with to birth your child is WAY MORE STRESSFUL than your imaginary money troubles you DON'T have.

Maybe you should try and look at this on the positive side. If this person's judgement told them it was ok to drop someone (basically on a whim) during the last month of their pregnancy....you probably dont want this person delivering your child any way....what other second guesses does she make about her business and practice. I'm sorry things are not working out for you. I hope you find a solution that works for you.