Distressed!!!!!!!

For the past week and half my husband hasn't been touching me. When I try to make advances on him, he stops me and tells me maybe tomorrow. So this has been going on for a week and Friday, he wakes up haves sex with me for 15 mins then goes to work. Now today is Monday he hasn't touched me since. I need your opinions before I automatically think he's cheating.

Maybe he is just stressed out, or tired.

he's tired from working? he's getting older? DH and I can go a couple of weeks at a time without sex if he's working a lot/tired, or I go to the gym at night. I wouldn't automatically think "cheating," some people grow up and just DON'T have sex everyday for hours on end and it's completely normal.

Noo I don't think cheating right off the bat. I read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus, and it mentioned men have this cycle of intimacy. They go from not needing at all to kinda needing it to really needing it. And then starts over again. So it feels like they are pulling away but it's just a guy thing. Idk if it pertains to this but I though it might calm you to think this is possible.

Is it really abnormal for him to act this way?

Quoting melindapple:" he's tired from working? he's getting older? DH and I can go a couple of weeks at a time without sex ... [snip!] ... think "cheating," some people grow up and just DON'T have sex everyday for hours on end and it's completely normal."

He's a car salesman, so I don' t know what he's tired from.

Quoting Rydicule91:" Noo I don't think cheating right off the bat. I read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus, and it mentioned ... [snip!] ... it pertains to this but I though it might calm you to think this is possible. Is it really abnormal for him to act this way? "

I wouldn't say it's abnormal, but when you're going from having sex every day to having sex once a week it's a very significant drop.

Quoting ★Momma Dee★:" He's a car salesman, so I don' t know what he's tired from."

lol.... my DH sells cell phones (6 10-12 hr days), and he still gets tired. I get tired at my job and all I do is paperwork and occasionally update the CPR models or make kits, or sit at home and take care of DD. Have you talked to him about your concern? Maybe try that if you really don't think being tired is an issue.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Momma Dee★:</b>" I wouldn't say it's abnormal, but when you're going from having sex every day to having sex once a week it's a very significant drop."</blockquote>




We've been there, while I was pregnant he was working ridiculous hours and was not the least but interested in sex.