Bfp!

Saturday night I took 2 test and BAM came up right away. Things between me and so weren't going very well and when all my emotions hit me I freaked out. I cried for about 20 minutes and was convinced I couldn't go through with the pregnancy.

Thankfully I've come to my senses. I've always been pro life and now that the thought even crossed my mind I feel horrible beyond all words. I feel so Ashamed.

But now me as so are doing good and very excited to be welcoming a new baby into our lives!!!!!!

Calling the dr today to set up my appointment
Baby showed be due oct 28

good for you?

Congrats 

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" Saturday night I took 2 test and BAM came up right away. Things between me and so weren't going very ... [snip!] ... to be welcoming a new baby into our lives!!!!!! Calling the dr today to set up my appointment Baby showed be due oct 28"</blockquote>




Congrats! Just make sure you're thinking long and hard about this. Could you support baby without SO?

Congrats, good luck to you   Babies are a blessing, planned or not planned. ;)

What changed in your relationship between then and now to make such a difference?

It sounds like you're struggling with being honest with yourself and doing what you think you SHOULD be doing.

Quoting Red Bottom:" What changed in your relationship between then and now to make such a difference? It sounds like you're struggling with being honest with yourself and doing what you think you SHOULD be doing."

this

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" What changed in your relationship between then and now to make such a difference? It sounds like you're struggling with being honest with yourself and doing what you think you SHOULD be doing."</blockquote>




This.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Live!Laugh!Love!:</b>" Congrats, good luck to you   Babies are a blessing, planned or not planned. ;)"</blockquote>




Thanks! It'll be hard but I was in a worse situation when I found out I was pregnant with dd and I believe everything happens for a reason. I will have a great support system and I believe that god doesn't give you anything you can't handle. I am strong enough. I've raised my daughter without her father and did just fine. This time ill actually have the father around. No doubt about it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" What changed in your relationship between then and now to make such a difference? It sounds like you're struggling with being honest with yourself and doing what you think you SHOULD be doing."</blockquote>




We talked things out and once I got the positive I realized why he had been getting on my last nerve everyday.

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Live!Laugh!Love!:</b>" Congrats, good luck to you   Babies ... [snip!] ... I've raised my daughter without her father and did just fine. This time ill actually have the father around. No doubt about it."</blockquote>




Is that why just a few days ago you felt like your relationship was in shambles enough for a pro life person to get an abortion?

You need to start being honest with yourself. You decide what you need to or should do, but don't base it off of the lies you convince yourself are true.

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" What changed in your relationship between then ... [snip!] ... We talked things out and once I got the positive I realized why he had been getting on my last nerve everyday."</blockquote>




Oh. So you're letting him get off scott free and blaming your hormones? Does he make you blame yourself often?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Oh. So you're letting him get off scott free and blaming your hormones? Does he make you blame yourself often?"</blockquote>




Did I ask for your opinion On my relationship or my decision to continue my pregnancy??? Didn't think so

Quoting angelica j:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting angelica ... [snip!] ... Did I ask for your opinion On my relationship or my decision to continue my pregnancy??? Didn't think so"

seems like she hit a sensitive topic for you..

Quoting angelica j:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Live!Laugh!Love!:</b>" Congrats, good luck to you   Babies ... [snip!] ... I've raised my daughter without her father and did just fine. This time ill actually have the father around. No doubt about it."

Exactly. Because YOU and only YOU are the one to decide on having this baby. It is you who will be raising it, and your body. What anyone on this site thinks of you & carrying on your relationship or pregnancy isn't really that relevant. I say have the baby. I've been in your position before...ive had terrible timing on becoming pregnant in the past & the relationship, and I too struggled with a decison of keeping the baby or aborting. And today I am sooo glad that i went through with it. If you have a support system, love, and strength to raise this baby with the possibility of only you doing it...then go for it! You can do it.   Everything is for a reason...and god did put this in your life...as a blessing!