re: mjt♥

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" I support her leaving an abusive relationship, but she made the statement that all men are aggressive. ... [snip!] ... she surrounds herself with these kinds of men. Like maybe grow up and stop chasing the bad boys. Give a "nice guy" a chance."</blockquote>




You clearly have no business giving any battered women advice.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" I'm pretty sure that almost every woman has ... [snip!] ... incapable of saying you've been in one and continue to make generalized statements. That statement was absurd by the way."

No, you are an idiot. I said I was in an abusive relationship, but I did not let it color my opinion of men, nor have all men I have been involved with been abusive. In fact, most men I have been involved with were great men and never showed any aggression towards me.

I feel very sorry for you and your cold angry world you live in. I feel even sorrier for the men that are connected to you. I fear for them because women like you can be very dangerous to men. We hold the political power and can take a man into court and make accusations against him and he is guilty until proven innocent.

Yes, I have seen that too. One of our friends called the cops at a party. She was mad because her boyfriend and her were arguing so he ignored her and talked to other women. She took her own hair in her hand and pulled it to make it look as if he did. Yes, one of our friends actually saw her do it as they were both in the bathroom together. She then called the cops and said he did it. Nobdoy supported her story and yet the boyfriend was hailed off to jail. Two weeks later she recanted her story, but he didn't get out of jail because the state picked up the charges via the victim's advocate group. She spent 4 months in jail waiting for them to finally drop the case. 4 months for something he didn't do.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" I support her leaving an abusive relationship, ... [snip!] ... bad boys. Give a "nice guy" a chance."</blockquote> You clearly have no business giving any battered women advice."

Yeah, better she carry mental scars for life by being given advice by a man harter such as yourself.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" No, you are an idiot. I said I was in an abusive relationship, but I did not let it color my opinion ... [snip!] ... advocate group. She spent 4 months in jail waiting for them to finally drop the case. 4 months for something he didn't do."</blockquote>




You are absolutely looney. Go take whatever that was, out on who it's really intended for.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" Yeah, better she carry mental scars for life by being given advice by a man harter such as yourself.  "</blockquote>




No. Better she talk about it openly with the man she loves. Better she talk about it with women who have gone through what she's gone through. Who said anything about hating men? You're off your rocker.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" Yeah, better she carry mental scars for life ... [snip!] ... about it with women who have gone through what she's gone through. Who said anything about hating men? You're off your rocker."

The feeling is mutual. You are off your rocker and off the porch. I've seen women like you. You push this victim mentality. A strong woman isn't a victim. You can have bad things happen to you but not be a victim, or you can allow yourself to feel like a victim and be one for life. Always looking at everything through your victim goggles.

Let's keep this going all night. Whiner

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" The feeling is mutual. You are off your rocker and off the porch. I've seen women like you. You push ... [snip!] ... victim and be one for life. Always looking at everything through your victim goggles. Let's keep this going all night. Whiner"</blockquote>




You are creating things that don't exist. You seem to enjoy typing for the mere fact of hoping someone will listen, with no regard for staying on topic.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" The feeling is mutual. You are off your rocker ... [snip!] ... don't exist. You seem to enjoy typing for the mere fact of hoping someone will listen, with no regard for staying on topic."

I know more than you, and unlike you I don[t close my mind to the whole picture. You are a victim, I am not. It allows me more clarity.

new flash, not all men are abusive, or aggressive...in fact, the majority are not....the vast majority. Most men are good men. And another newsflash for you not all woman are victims, and in fact, many are abusive.

Ever seen a woman set a man up so that she could move more than 50 miles away with their child, and live with her new boyfriend in her home town? I have. She did it with military proficiency and took advantage of his trust, and desire to work things out with her. When she was done with him, he spent 5 months in jail, 6 months on probation, lost his job. Then the bitch whined that the judge denied her alimony.

I won't go into details of what she did because you think everything is made up if it doesn't fit your narrow perspective.

I am so glad I am not you.

Your turn Whiny.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" I know more than you, and unlike you I don[t close my mind to the whole picture. You are a victim, I ... [snip!] ... you think everything is made up if it doesn't fit your narrow perspective. I am so glad I am not you. Your turn Whiny."</blockquote>




Where is any of this coming from? You legit need a friend to talk to.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" You legit need a friend to talk to."

You need a therapist.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" You need a therapist."</blockquote>




LOL

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" You need a therapist."</blockquote> LOL"

I'll second that.
woww

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dallas ♥ Isla:</b>" I'll second that. woww"</blockquote>




I'm just chalking that up to cray cray.

Robbie this is the first thing you said

"If you think all men can be aggressive, then maybe the problem is you. Maybe it is how you relate to them. You push their buttons until you get a reaction. Maybe you don't even realize you do it."

That is a pretty disgusting comment to make to a woman who has came looking for advice because she is more or less suffering flashbacks of a seriously violent relationship. You then went on to rabble on about how if you behave like some timid little meke child he will be more likely to act like a knight in shining armour.... Wow what absolutely wonderful advice to give to abused and battered women! It's her behaviour that is causing the abuser to abuse her and if she just shuts up and takes it then it will all get better  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robbie104:</b>" If you think all men can be aggressive, then maybe the problem is you. Maybe it is how you relate to ... [snip!] ... it will bring out the knight in shining armor side of him. If it doesn't, get rid of him, and find a knight in shining armor."</blockquote>


When I say aggressive I mean when they raise their voice or something. Everyone does that.