I thought.

Walking would help. My SO's ex invited us to go to the international mall yesterday with her and her BF. To go to build-a-bear so that my DD's big brother could make her a bear (It was so cute !) so I did lots of walking. Good amount. I wasn't too sore or anything. And I could definitely feel those sharp pains in my cervix area and I was hoping it was making progress. It's the next morning. And not only nothing, but I'm in SO much pain lol. I walked for hours, and not a damn thing.   I was hoping to go before my next apt. I've got 3 days.

Can't get past the fact that you went to the mall with your boyfriends ex. Too weird. Can't concentrate.

Quoting Red Bottom:" Can't get past the fact that you went to the mall with your boyfriends ex. Too weird. Can't concentrate."

Meh it's been so up and down. And since they have a kid together I kind of have to get used to her being around I guess. I've posted a few times where I was tired of her not acknowledging me and yet acknowledging my child. So I wasn't going to turn down and advance. And she was doing something nice for my little girl, and her Son's little sister. Plus I always hear about women going into labor after walking around the mall for hours. The weird part was when she made us dinner... That was a bit strange. But my SO hasn't seen his son for more than an hour or two since I was 38-39 weeks. So I didn't mind and she was being nice.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Can't get past the fact that you went to the mall with your boyfriends ex. Too weird. Can't concentrate."</blockquote>


I'm assuming the ex has a little boy who is her daughters brother. Kudos to you for getting along so great with her.

Hang in there. You're super overdue so the baby has to come soon! I went 5 days overdue and was dying. I can only imagine how you feel.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" Meh it's been so up and down. And since they have a kid together I kind of have to get used to her being ... [snip!] ... But my SO hasn't seen his son for more than an hour or two since I was 38-39 weeks. So I didn't mind and she was being nice. "</blockquote>




That's weird that she accepts your child but not you. Sounds like she's got a thing for your baby daddy, and is accepting his new child, not his girlfriend.

Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Can't get past the fact that you went to the ... [snip!] ... there. You're super overdue so the baby has to come soon! I went 5 days overdue and was dying. I can only imagine how you feel."

Thanks, I think she's finally trying. And it was cute to watch their son (And yes my DD's older brother) make a cute little teddy bear. He named it Jasmine for some reason   we don't know anyone named Jasmine. lol. And I hope she comes. My OB thinks I'm too narrow and she's too big to fit into my pelvis. I have an US Thursday, depending on that I'll either get induced or have a c-section. Either way as long as she's healthy I do not care how she comes anymore.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" Meh it's been so up and down. And since they ... [snip!] ... your child but not you. Sounds like she's got a thing for your baby daddy, and is accepting his new child, not his girlfriend."

It's more like her boyfriend doesn't want to have children with her because he watches how she treats my SO (that's not hear say either it's fact) and so she's not able to have more children and she's baby hungry. SCARIEST part of my pregnancy was when SO's son was at the dinner table and say's "You're supposed to have the baby, then they take the baby away. And give it to my mommy!" I was like THE SmUrf. We never really figured out or pursued that. Not sure if he over heard a convo. or if that's how he thought it worked... He was only 3.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" It's more like her boyfriend doesn't want to have children with her because he watches how she treats ... [snip!] ... really figured out or pursued that. Not sure if he over heard a convo. or if that's how he thought it worked... He was only 3. "</blockquote>




No. Too smurfing weird.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" It's more like her boyfriend doesn't want to ... [snip!] ... he over heard a convo. or if that's how he thought it worked... He was only 3. "</blockquote> No. Too smurfing weird."

Well with that said it's cool she's being nice, and family events involving her side, and her son (B-day parties holidays etc.,) will be easier if it keeps up this way. But she'll never have my kid alone. Hell no.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" Well with that said it's cool she's being nice, and family events involving her side, and her son (B-day ... [snip!] ... her son (B-day parties holidays etc.,) will be easier if it keeps up this way. But she'll never have my kid alone. Hell no. "</blockquote>




Being cool to his face. Saying she's going to steal your baby, behind your back.

Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" Well with that said it's cool she's being nice, ... [snip!] ... kid alone. Hell no. "</blockquote> Being cool to his face. Saying she's going to steal your baby, behind your back."

Ok...
I said we don't know exactly where that came from he was 3 when I posted about it when it happened the majority of women said he's 3 they say weird stuff, the rest said it was weird and to keep an eye open. That's what I'm doing. But it's not like There's anything I can do. I'm a part of her child's life now. And she's always going to be a small presence in mine. I don't like that but it's a fact. If we're going to be civil back biters. At least we can be civil in front of the children.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chels :3:</b>" Ok... I said we don't know exactly where that came from he was 3 when I posted about it when it happened ... [snip!] ... I don't like that but it's a fact. If we're going to be civil back biters. At least we can be civil in front of the children. "</blockquote>




Oh absolutely. Just totally not something I'd do. Not knocking you for it.

Same here I have about a day or two.   I been walking and bouncing on the ball. GRR come on baby  

Quoting bloopbloop♥™:" Same here I have about a day or two.   I been walking and bouncing on the ball. GRR come on baby  "

I'm not doing anything today. I've walked so much in the last three days my hips hurt so bad. I can't lift my legs from my hips lol. I'm about to go back to bed soon I can't stay awake lol.

Quoting Chels :3:" I'm not doing anything today. I've walked so much in the last three days my hips hurt so bad. I can't lift my legs from my hips lol. I'm about to go back to bed soon I can't stay awake lol. "

Yeah rest up a little! There is only so much one can do you know??
I walked all day thursday and friday a little saturday and just chilled sunday. I'm like I can't over work myself...UGH   But really I'm only miserable because I don't want to be induced...