Quoting ~Raylan's Mama~:" Stay strong Mama! Don't let him guilt trip you. It is NOT your fault he couldn't keep his dick in his ... [snip!] ... should just tell him what you found and tell him to leave. If you aren't going to be happy it will be best for your son anyway."
I'm just keeping my son on my mind. Gotta do whats right for him. When gets home, I'm definitely telling him to leave. Baby blues and then this smurf piled on top isn't helping me at all.. I just have no job, hes the breadwinner at the moment. I'm gonna be doing it all on my own if we split.. never would have thought it would end this way..
& thanks for the advice, ladies.