re: So confused!!!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting tia4:</b>" thanks for all the advice im keeping my baby i cant bring myself to abort i just will have 1 19mths and ... [snip!] ... of babies aborted at 17wks and it was horrible i will not be part of that club for no.1 so im going to do what best for me."</blockquote>


Abortion may not be what's best, but you have to consider what's going to be best for the child you already have. How will another baby limit the fiscal resources you have for your first? How will it impact the time you're able to spend with your toddler?

Quoting a s h l e y.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting tia4:</b>" thanks for all the advice im keeping my baby i cant ... [snip!] ... baby limit the fiscal resources you have for your first? How will it impact the time you're able to spend with your toddler?"

exactly. Looking at pictures will just put her mind at a place where she won't think rationally.

<blockquote><b>Quoting °NoName™°¯\_(ツ)_/¯:</b>" exactly. Looking at pictures will just put her mind at a place where she won't think rationally."</blockquote>




Exactly. It's an emotionally trying decision, but one that can't be made solely on emotions. Logic is a huge, huge part of it.