Sex drive.

Ever since my miscarriage (which happened April 30, 2012) I have NO sex drive. I mean, I do, but I don't. Some days I'll be like "OMFG SEX!" and then other days I don't even think about it. I feel bad for telling my fiancé cause it's not really fair to him either. It's been almost a year and still nothing. We've gone for 2 maybe even 3 weeks without messing around and I'm perfectly fine with that. Is there something I take / do to help? Please no bashing either. This is something that really bothers me /:

I'd maybe go talk to someone personally if its in regardless to the miscarriage.

But my husband will sometimes go 2 weeks without sex. Between school, the kids, running around, cleaning this and that it just gets pushed on the back burner sometimes. It doesnt bother me.....maybe have a date night? Go out and do something romantic? Something different from your normal routine that might spice things up

You have a low sex drive. Only thing I can say is do romantic things with SO, like go out to dinner or something. Do something to spark that little flame. Only thing I can really come up with. (I tried! Lol)

It's just weird though. Whenever we first got together, we'd do it like 6 times a day (or damn near close).

There's something called horney goat weed(it's not actual weed lol) my friend had her husband take it. Maybe google it?

Get some therapy. I had the same problem after I had my MC but it was my mindset. Luckily I have the ability to reason with myself and some friends I can talk it through with. It took me about five months to get back to actually having my sex drive back to where it was before that happened.

Quoting It's a boy!!!!*3/27/13*:" There's something called horney goat weed(it's not actual weed lol) my friend had her husband take it. Maybe google it?"

I've heard of that actually. lol. Is it only for men? Or do you not know? If not, it's okay, I'll google it. lol.

Quoting Let the rain fall:" Get some therapy. I had the same problem after I had my MC but it was my mindset. Luckily I have the ... [snip!] ... with. It took me about five months to get back to actually having my sex drive back to where it was before that happened."

It's been almost a year for me /:

Quoting nicolelynnexo:" It's been almost a year for me /:"

Like said therapy is always good. You can talk it out and figure out how to solve the problem because this is more than likely something mental you are dealing with rather you know it or not.

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I really have no idea! :-) I am hoping my husbands dr drive severely decreases! Lol

Quoting nicolelynnexo:" Ever since my miscarriage (which happened April 30, 2012) I have NO sex drive. I mean, I do, but I don't. ... [snip!] ... fine with that. Is there something I take / do to help? Please no bashing either. This is something that really bothers me /:"

i totally understand this. totally. when i lost my son i was only 23, and we had a really really good love life... and after, once my hormones slowed down, so did my sex drive... but he is so patient, and that kin d of turns me on... so i guess i really just look for the things that he does that makes me love him more, and it helps me through my "dry" spells

Quoting nicolelynnexo:" Ever since my miscarriage (which happened April 30, 2012) I have NO sex drive. I mean, I do, but I don't. ... [snip!] ... fine with that. Is there something I take / do to help? Please no bashing either. This is something that really bothers me /:"

I was the same way after my 2 miscarriages, most likely is psychological. therapy may help. I talked to my hubby about it since he took psychology he was able to help me thru and relate because we went through it together. And after I lost my twins he hugged me and told me we can keep trying and have fun while doing it lol. and sure enough 4 months later I got pregnant with my son. I wish you the best of luck and my condolences its a very hard thing to go thru for sure.