Quoting Main Jane:" You're claiming that I put down the OP? Hmm... Looked through my posts and it looks like I said nothing ... [snip!] ... thinking of someone else. Maybe those who were saying that the OP shouldn't be able to read advice that differed from theirs?"
By telling her to think long and hard about her decision, after she's already done so, you WERE putting her down in a way. You were not following the rules of this forum. It's a PROTECTED forum for a reason, and your comments were not following the guidelines. You were judgmental and bordering on rude. Please be aware of how you post in AS.