re: abortion

<blockquote><b>Quoting mrs.bedell:</b>" Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting ... [snip!] ... for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from."</blockquote>




Doesn't matter. Not your place.

Quoting angelica j:" I wanted it because he did. My heart wasn't fully in it."

you don't need to explain yourself to her.

Quoting mrs.bedell:" Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting ... [snip!] ... for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from."

you don't need to understand, it's none of your concern.

Quoting angelica j:" I wanted it because he did. My heart wasn't fully in it."

You do not need to explain yourself. Its none of her business as to why. She needs to stop.

Definitely call your doctor and see what they can help you with.

<blockquote><b>Quoting mrs.bedell:</b>" Not judging just don't understand how less then 6 days ago you are TTC to finding out you are getting ... [snip!] ... for woman's choice and being able to terminate if she so chooses but I just do not understand where she is now coming from."</blockquote>

Why do you need to understand where she is coming from for her abortion to be ok. You don't. It's none of your business and not your life, please leave.

Ok ladies as I said to her privately at the time I did not know this was a abortion page I apologized and said my peace. If I know I was on the abortion survivors site I would not have left a comment sorry bye.

im praying my dr can take care of it this week. my birthday is friday i don't want to be pregnant and depressed and hiding it from my best friend when she tried to get me to go out drinking. i need birth control asap. i never want to go through this again. the past 12 hours have been horrible.

i wish there was some way i could do it on my own at home. i feel so embarrassed for even considering it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" im praying my dr can take care of it this week. my birthday is friday i don't want to be pregnant and ... [snip!] ... me to go out drinking. i need birth control asap. i never want to go through this again. the past 12 hours have been horrible."</blockquote>




I hope you are able to get it taken care of and move on ASAP. It would be nice to start off your next year of life without this burden hanging over you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" i wish there was some way i could do it on my own at home. i feel so embarrassed for even considering it. "</blockquote>




Don't consider that. It's incredibly dangerous. Everything will be ok. You could always start counseling now before you get it, if you're this depressed.

will this cause problems getting pregnant in the future

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" will this cause problems getting pregnant in the future"</blockquote>




They'll tell you it might, and I guess it could. I never had any problems or complications after mine though. I had a surgical.

Quoting angelica j:" how many weeks were you "

about 8.

last night i was having pain on the left side of my pelvis and today ive been cramping on and off. if this normal for 4 weeks or could something else be going on

Quoting angelica j:" last night i was having pain on the left side of my pelvis and today ive been cramping on and off. if this normal for 4 weeks or could something else be going on"

I'd call your doc, he may want an U/S and to check your bHCG levels to make sure it's not an ectopic pregnancy. But you don't need to look at the US.