Quoting Cersei ™:" You have to weigh your pros and cons and decide which is the lesser of two evils. I, personally, would ... [snip!] ... me to be pregnant unless I knew I could fully take care of that child without their support (emotionally and financially). "
Quoting Addi's Momma:" Don't let him bully you but really think about it. Truth is that you will probably be raising all 3 children ... [snip!] ... I could never raise a child around someone who didn't want the child. My dad was like that and it was a horrible childhood."He's not really bullying her by being honest about not wanting a child. She said he is the sole financial provider for their family, maybe he does not want to take on the financial responsibility.
Quoting Jenna+1:" Your DH sounds like an ass. Wtf kind of comment is "you want to have this baby so ill forget about my ... [snip!] ... my son."? You have two other children with him right? Those two didn't make him forget about his son? Your body, your choice."
Quoting Cersei ™:" He's not really bullying her by being honest about not wanting a child. She said he is the sole financial provider for their family, maybe he does not want to take on the financial responsibility. "
Quoting October Rust:" I can understand that and I agree with your first statement as well. We talked about the financial situation ... [snip!] ... happens and we break up, I know I could handle being a single mother. It wouldn't be easy at first, but I know I could do it. "
Quoting Cersei ™:" Then go with your heart. You know your situation better than any of us do so if you feel that you can ... [snip!] ... into. Best wishes OP. I've been in a similar situation and it was very, very, very hard but everything happens for a reason."
Quoting October Rust:" Yeah, it's funny because I've gotten pregnant on 3 different kinds of birth control now! (4 if you count ... [snip!] ... be here. Thank you for your kind words and advice, they don't go unappreciated! Here's to hoping things work out for the best!"I agree. Sometimes no matter how hard you try to prevent, your body still winds up doing what it is naturally wired to do.
Quoting LayLu:" I'm sorry you're going through this, I know it's gotta be tough wanting a baby and not being supported ... [snip!] ... out. I know people in way worse situations that still manage to take care of their kids, I'm sure you guys can figure it out."