Quoting Jordan's mommy (BBM):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy of a giggler!:</b>" My son has autism. I can see this ... [snip!] ... he's diffrent..I know he loves him bc he provides, and when he gets home he plays with him few mins before sayin anything to me"
Honestly, he's young and facing the possibilty of autism is hard. I would have him go talk to someone, even your son's therapists if he will. My husband took a long time to come around and accept it. He wouldn't often say how he hated our son, or wished we hadn't had him, etc. It wasn't that he meant it, but he was angry at himself because he felt that it was his DNA that had caused this, and now our son would be stuck with it. He was so depressed about it, that he took it out on me and our son.
Having been through it (and my husband was 30 at the time, so he also had a little more maturity behind him) I can say I think he needs to talk to someone to get some help through it.