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im not gonna lie that would piss me off! to the extreme

You should be livid.

Talking about eye candy at bars.

Talking about hooking up with girls.

Talking about WANTING to go to strip clubs.

LYING about going to strip clubs.

Then coming home and being intimate with himself.

No. Just no.

Meh. Did he lie, or did he not tell you? If you asked him where he was going and he said somewhere different, then I'd be mad. I wouldn't be mad he didnt tell you though.

I always think its weird when girls tell there men they can't go to strip clubs (not saying this is you). What are they supposed to do? All their buddies are sitting around and decide to go. Is he supposed to be like "nope, sorry. I'm not allowed" lol.

I'd be irritated but just cause I've been wanting to go.

I would be pissed. To me if you have to lie about something it's because you are doing something wrong. I would also get mad about him just going but that's just me lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" You should be livid. Talking about eye candy at bars. Talking about hooking up with girls. Talking ... [snip!] ... to go to strip clubs. LYING about going to strip clubs. Then coming home and being intimate with himself. No. Just no."</blockquote>


 

Quoting Red Bottom:" You should be livid. Talking about eye candy at bars. Talking about hooking up with girls. Talking ... [snip!] ... to go to strip clubs. LYING about going to strip clubs. Then coming home and being intimate with himself. No. Just no."

 
I would be smurfing pissed.

I get irratated when I come home and log on my computer and it pops up with porn he forgot to close.  

Wow. No. Thats not okay. If my husband did that to me i'd fall apart, because thats not what you do when you are in love with somebody. WTF

I'd be incredibly upset. But we've agreed that strip clubs aren't really acceptable to allow in our marriage.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" You should be livid. Talking about eye candy at bars. Talking about hooking up with girls. Talking ... [snip!] ... to go to strip clubs. LYING about going to strip clubs. Then coming home and being intimate with himself. No. Just no."</blockquote>

   

I knew my answer after reading the title and the first four words of the post. Lying is not ever acceptable in a relationship. Lying destroys trust and without trust, there's no reason to carry on as partners. You can work on gaining trust back, but you shouldn't ever have to. I'd be furious.

<blockquote><b>Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:</b>" Meh. Did he lie, or did he not tell you? If you asked him where he was going and he said somewhere different, ... [snip!] ... to do? All their buddies are sitting around and decide to go. Is he supposed to be like "nope, sorry. I'm not allowed" lol."</blockquote>


Not telling something that you know will hurt your partner, is basically just as bad as lying.

&Yeah, he sure can say that or "no sorry, I have more respect for my wife/partner to go and do something behind her back that I know would hurt her."

Meh, I wouldn't care. He probably didn't admit to it in the first place because he knew you wouldn't like it.
wouldn't bother me if my husband went to one.

I was a stripper before and we had psycho girlfriends or wives come in ALL THE TIME, or call up to the bar and call us all nasty whores.
Seriously... it's look don't touch, why the big deal?

Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:" Meh. Did he lie, or did he not tell you? If you asked him where he was going and he said somewhere different, ... [snip!] ... to do? All their buddies are sitting around and decide to go. Is he supposed to be like "nope, sorry. I'm not allowed" lol."

Well that night he went with his friend and went out to the bars and got home at 2 or 3 am. He said he didn't like the bar scene there. I mean I didn't ask him what he was doing on an hour by hour basis so it could have been both. lying and not telling.

<blockquote><b>Quoting lamr - 02-08-13-21:</b>" Meh. Did he lie, or did he not tell you? If you asked him where he was going and he said somewhere different, ... [snip!] ... to do? All their buddies are sitting around and decide to go. Is he supposed to be like "nope, sorry. I'm not allowed" lol."</blockquote>

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