Quoting kr.r:" Do you plan on doing all your labouring in the tub? If not, birthing balls are AWESOME. I used mine like ... [snip!] ... have one so it's not a huge deal. Do you mean things to help progress the labour or just setting the mood/atmosphere stuff?"
a birthing ball !!! i totaly spaced that! thanks and yes mood atmosphere stuff would be awesome, i was thing like a wax burner with a nice sent, but i dont know what sent. and yes i plan on a water birth, but as for the labor, idk i guess ill just go with the flow on that one lol