Quoting Heather&EJ+1:" they told me the same thing, that it was one of those things i couldnt have caused it was just that ... [snip!] ... along with him... So far so good with this one, havent gotten sick once and they estimate im around 5 wks.. .so we will see..."
Yeah, it took me a year to go back to the hospital to read the results and have all of his paperwork released to me. It was hard, but they told me the same.. I didn't do anything wrong, it was nothing in my genes, it was just something that happened. It bothered me so much because I knew people who smoked through their entire pregnancy, who didn't exercise, who drank nothing but soda, who drank, and had perfectly healthy babies.. and I'd wonder why I did everything right and everything went so wrong. But hopefully this time everything goes smoothly for the both of us. It's good that so far it's a completely different experience for you (as far as keeping food down and stuff goes), maybe it'll help you to think more positive.