Quoting LoveMyBubbaBoy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kaz86:</b>" Yea when I told him that his family don't have to ... [snip!] ... that he wants you to throw your second one... If his family wants it that bad, can one f them host it? That's a lot on you..."
Quoting The Doctor:" Yeah. I'm not into the idea of throwing your own baby shower in the first place... but ESPECIALLY if you don't want to throw one for yourself. That's just silliness."The money it'll cost could be much better spent preparing for the baby!
Quoting kaz86:" I'm to the point where I'm just going to tell my mom to stop planning my shower that I don't want one ... [snip!] ... want one I thought the point of a shower was to relax n spend time with friends n family not for the mother to be to stress"
Quoting kaz86:" I just don't want to fight about it anymore that's why I wanted to just give up on the shower all together"
Quoting The Doctor:" IMO, baby showers aren't to give you the things you need for your baby. They're to celebrate you becoming a mommy. So, that kind of rubs me the wrong way, but to each his own."My mother most not have gotten that memo. I asked her if she was come to the Meet the Baby Shower my aunts are hosting next month and she said she wasn't showing up empty handed. I was like wtf, this is your grandchild, don't you want to be the proud grandma.
Quoting Maria + Cory = Alexis:" My mother most not have gotten that memo. I asked her if she was come to the Meet the Baby Shower my ... [snip!] ... up empty handed. I was like wtf, this is your grandchild, don't you want to be the proud grandma. I doubt she will come. "
Quoting The Doctor:" I mean, that sucks. But I kind of understand... because I would feel so awkward and out of place if ... [snip!] ... have to be a break the bank gift. Hell, she could smurfin' make something for a gift. haha... but I'm sorry. I hope she comes."LO doesn't even need anything. She has all she needs plus more. I told her not to worry about it. I know my aunts are giving me handmade gifts which is what I love. My mother never missed my sisters's baby shower and this is most likely going to be my only child and her last grandchild.