re: MIL calls it slut disease?!!

posted 16th Feb
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I don't think you get cervical cancer from ... [snip!] ... CC can also be caused genetically. I think the black bit she said might have to do with the fact that she lives in Wyoming."


I live 57 miles from Wyoming and people here don't say that smurf.
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posted 16th Feb
Uhm, she learned that someone has been diagnosed with cancer, and is gossiping and joking about it, calling her cancer a "skank disease?"

What..a horrible person.
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I have 1 child & live in Savannah, Georgia
posted 16th Feb
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting melindapple:</b>"   no offense, but she just made herself ... [snip!] ... quite frequently call CC "slut disease" because your chances of getting it increase drastically the more partners you have."



 
I didn't even take health class, but I know that you don't have to be a slut to have HPV. I mean I guess since x/y number of people carry HPV so the number of people you sleep with would increase your chances, but it doesn't mean that people who get cervical cancer are sluts.  
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I have 1 child & live in Michigan
posted 16th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I live 57 miles from Wyoming and people here don't say that smurf."</blockquote>




She's probrably 60 years old, lol smurf like you guys don't know any crazy old white bitches.
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I have 1 child & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 16th Feb
Quoting [[Breezy]]:" Uhm, she learned that someone has been diagnosed with cancer, and is gossiping and joking about it, calling her cancer a "skank disease?" What..a horrible person."
       
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Middleport, Ohio
posted 16th Feb
Quoting Amαndα ♕:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I live 57 miles from Wyoming and people ... [snip!] ... that smurf."</blockquote> She's probrably 60 years old, lol smurf like you guys don't know any crazy old white bitches."

People here tend to be racist toward natives. Lol. Everyone here loves black people because they tend to do well for themselves. here. The whopping 5 black people we have in this state. Lmao.
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posted 16th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" Just because a woman sleeps with multiple people doesn't make her a whore, slut, skank, or any other derogatory term. It just means she likes sex. It's a very normal thing."</blockquote>




What DOES indicate that a woman is one of these things though? People came up with these terms to define something. Many if not most of us ladie here have probably used these terms before in connection with someone we viewed as being such.
Anyine have the gall to clarify? Help me out here!
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posted 16th Feb
You seriously expect that witch to not get bashed?
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I live in New York
posted 16th Feb
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" Just because a woman sleeps with multiple ... [snip!] ... of us ladie here have probably used these terms before in connection with someone we viewed as being such. Help me out here!"


I think those terms were developed from back when a woman was expected to only ever be with one man. That mentality remained even though society changed.
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posted 16th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Amαndα ♕:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I live 57 miles from Wyoming and people ... [snip!] ... that smurf."</blockquote> She's probrably 60 years old, lol smurf like you guys don't know any crazy old white bitches."</blockquote>




This!!! She is a complete sweetheart, care bear type granny. Then she says this stuff, it's like something straight out of an Adam Sandlar flick.
quotesmurfs?
posted 16th Feb
Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" Just because a woman sleeps with multiple ... [snip!] ... of us ladie here have probably used these terms before in connection with someone we viewed as being such. Help me out here!"

Slut-


Noun

A slovenly or promiscuous woman.

Whore-

Noun

derogatory. A prostitute.


ETA: so when she is a prostitute or promiscuous you can use the terms.
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I have 1 child & live in Michigan
posted 16th Feb
How old is your MIL? If she's 60+ Id kinda understand..older people tend to believe some crazy/stupid things like this. A lot take gossip talk as truths lol
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I have 3 kids & live in Pennsylvania
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posted 16th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I think those terms were developed from back when a woman was expected to only ever be with one man. That mentality remained even though society changed."</blockquote>




So in our present day society, what are out present day thoughts on application of these terms?

There must be a point when a woman has gone too far, right? At what point is this? Is it when a woman has actually become quite literally a whore? Slipped into bestiality, been incestuous, become sexually diseased ridden, has five bazillion baby daddies?

I'm just curious at what point the majority of women really take pause and think to themselves
"Tsk tsk, what a shame" and feel repulsed
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posted 16th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Lauralie89:</b>" How old is your MIL? If she's 60+ Id kinda understand..older people tend to believe some crazy/stupid things like this. A lot take gossip talk as truths lol"</blockquote>




She is over 60. My DHs parents are closer on age to my grandparents (80s) than my parents (50s)

I'm going to ask my real world friends about the latter topic because everyone seems so disinclined to answer what their personal thoughts are on the matter! MIL is way off in her statements, but people must have some sort of idea about what is sexually acceptable/unacceptable.

DH just woke up and I told him about the convo. He didn't seem surprised, all he said was that ma was right about one thing!!???
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posted 16th Feb
I call anyone a whore that receives money or some sort of compensation for sexual acts. Unless they are married. A slut... ehhh there's more factors that go into that. Numbers is never a factor because guys can have sex with 100+ girls and no one thinks anything of it, so why can't a woman have the same right? Now if she's sleeping with taken/married men, yeah, I'll call her a slut. If you are walking down the street and seeing a woman having a gangbang with 6 guys in an alleyway, I might be considering it lol.
I do think what granny said was really mean though. I mean, some older people still have issues with races and different things we do, such as tattoos, piercings, hair color, etc. But it doesn't make it excusable. I wouldn't wish cancer on anybody, and I definitely wouldn't call it skank disease.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Oklahoma
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