miscarriage

If you had a miscarriage how long did you bleed for? ... been having on and off bleeding which is super odd, for hours will not bleed then will start bleeding again hoping to start trying to get pregnant want to be pregnant again but having sex while bleeding is weird to me

been a few days of this on and off bleeding and my tests are getting lighter   they were never all that dark to begin with tia

you are so young  

Quoting therewillbeswans:" If you had a miscarriage how long did you bleed for? ... been having on and off bleeding which is super ... [snip!] ... been a few days of this on and off bleeding and my tests are getting lighter   they were never all that dark to begin with tia"

I'd contact your doctor cuz you could be having a partial miscarriage where you don't pass everything and that can cause way more problems... but any time you miscarry you should go see a doctor to make sure everything is okay... sorry  

Shoooo. You are WAY too young to be trying. I am sorry for the miscarriage, but take it as an opportunity to live your life and experience being young. A lot of young mothers wish they had that chance.

Quoting Martha Marshall:" I'd contact your doctor cuz you could be having a partial miscarriage where you don't pass everything ... [snip!] ... can cause way more problems... but any time you miscarry you should go see a doctor to make sure everything is okay... sorry  "

I do see a Dr. and thank you

Quoting therewillbeswans:" If you had a miscarriage how long did you bleed for? ... been having on and off bleeding which is super ... [snip!] ... been a few days of this on and off bleeding and my tests are getting lighter   they were never all that dark to begin with tia"

first... you/re too young for a baby. finish growing up.

end... how long ago was your miscarraige? did you see a doctor? you need to make sure everythign came out.

Quoting kthx.:" Shoooo. You are WAY too young to be trying. I am sorry for the miscarriage, but take it as an opportunity ... [snip!] ... but take it as an opportunity to live your life and experience being young. A lot of young mothers wish they had that chance."

totally didn't see her age... I agree... OP take this as your second chance and finish school and get your finances situated before you start trying... trust me even when you think you've got everything lined up and you can start trying it's still more than you can anticipate

Buy Opks, see if you are even ovulating this cycle.. you may have to either have sex this "cycle" while bleeding or you can skip this "cycle" I bled for almost 2 weeks straight and counted my bleeding as a cycle since I did ovulate shortly after the bleeding was over.

Quoting Augbabies:" Buy Opks, see if you are even ovulating this cycle.. you may have to either have sex this "cycle" while ... [snip!] ... I bled for almost 2 weeks straight and counted my bleeding as a cycle since I did ovulate shortly after the bleeding was over."

she's 16

Quoting Augbabies:" Buy Opks, see if you are even ovulating this cycle.. you may have to either have sex this "cycle" while ... [snip!] ... I bled for almost 2 weeks straight and counted my bleeding as a cycle since I did ovulate shortly after the bleeding was over."

yeah really hoping that I do not bleed for weeks   very stressful thing to go through just want this go away and want to be pregnant agian I got pregnant on high dose BC so hoping it is easy for me to get pregnant again this time around

idk not dealing well i guess

Quoting therewillbeswans:" yeah really hoping that I do not bleed for weeks   very stressful thing to go through just want this ... [snip!] ... got pregnant on high dose BC so hoping it is easy for me to get pregnant again this time around idk not dealing well i guess"

You are young but not going to tell you this is your 2nd chance that is just heartless... but maybe talk to someone hunny? but if you are wanting to get pregnant best of luck to you nothing anyone can do I know how hard losses can be. And bleeding assures you are getting rid of everything so you want to bleed =] can not get pregnant if anything is left behind.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Shoooo. You are WAY too young to be trying. I am sorry for the miscarriage, but take it as an opportunity ... [snip!] ... but take it as an opportunity to live your life and experience being young. A lot of young mothers wish they had that chance."</blockquote>



 

You are still a baby yourself. At least wait a few years, get a job and a way to support the both of you.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Shoooo. You are WAY too young to be trying. I am ... [snip!] ...   You are still a baby yourself. At least wait a few years, get a job and a way to support the both of you."

not a baby and we both have jobs

Quoting therewillbeswans:" not a baby and we both have jobs"

You are a baby. You can't even legally buy cough syrup. You can't get a place on your own. You can't sign anything on your own. You don't even have a full license yet (IF you even have your permit). You're a child wanting a child. So messed up. And what job do you have? McDonalds part time? Because that's about the only place that will hire a 16 year old, and you can only work minimal hours until you're 18. You cannot support a baby... either your parents or the government will. And that is no way to be bringing a baby into this world. Sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth. You need to reevaluate.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" You are a baby. You can't even legally buy cough syrup. You can't get a place on your own. You can't ... [snip!] ... will. And that is no way to be bringing a baby into this world. Sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth. You need to reevaluate."</blockquote>


To be fair, you can absolutely have a full license at 16 and work as many hours as you want pretty much anywhere that will hire you (save the obvious like a bartending position). All dependent on what state you're in. That said, OP is still only 16 and clearly has issues she needs to talk through with someone if she's wanting to throw her youth and freedom away so early, before it's even reached its prime. That's what you'd be doing, OP, had the baby stuck and you carried to term and had a newborn to look after, locking you into at least 18 years of physically, emotionally and financially providing for a human life other than your own, dictating what you can and cannot do with your free time, possibly putting some of your dreams and aspirations on hold, sacrificing the absolute freedom and opportunity you have in your youth.

Motherhood is beautiful and rewarding (and more exhausting and challenging than you can imagine), but it can wait. You have so much life ahead of you. There's no need to rush into anything so permanent.