Quoting speaktruth2powr:" $1700 behind in child support is nothing. In most states and provinces, you need to be married and that ... [snip!] ... which is what you are trying to go for, it is 6-12 months of non-contact (no phone calls, visits, etc.) before you can use it."
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I'm confused why he needed to tell you he is no longer in the army? "
Quoting Piecey.:" I'd assume for insurance purposes for the child."
Quoting Pistol Amber:" <blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" $1700 behind in child support is nothing. ... [snip!] ... and that phone call had nothing to do with LO it was about his court date he was missing for CS. So I dont know if that counts."
Quoting Pistol Amber:" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" all of this!!! I say you probably won't get ... [snip!] ... sucks. He wont willingly give him up because...are you ready for this. He has our sons name tattooed on his arm. That is why."Wow That is horrible.
Quoting Pistol Amber:" <blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" That might be enough. But, unless you ... [snip!] ... married eventually. We have been together for two years. We just have both been divorced so we are not ready for marriage yet."
Quoting Pistol Amber:" Thanks ladies. It was not the answer I was hoping for but I did not want to waste more money on lawyers ... [snip!] ... for him. I just simply remind him of all of the people in his life that love him very much so he remembers how special he is."