Quoting Elliot Reid:" What a smurfing ass!! No you are not overreacting, if he wants the house clean he should help you out, not make it worse! I would not be marrying a jerk like that, im sorry "
He won't help clean. He says he works all day shouldn't have to clean when he gets home because he takes care of the kids while I work. He makes it seem like he does all the work, but we both work full time.
I usually have the house very clean before I go to work everyday. And every night when I come home I can't tell I've done anything because the kids mess it up so bad and he doesn't make them clean it up.