would you be upset?

So yesterday was valentines day, and I would not at all consider myself a materialistic person, I've never asked for flowers, or jewlery or anything, but I was expecting at least a card, and I got nothing.. I bought my husband a nice card, and helped my kids make a card for him, and bought his favourite type of chocolates.. He apologized for not getting me anything and I acted as if it was okay, but I was hurt. am I being a baby. I mean it's done and over with but I just want to know if anyone would also feel hurt?

I'd let it go. Is it really worth being hurt or upset over?

I'm in the same situation. My man got me nothing. I actually didn't want material things (I'd rather save the money), but I was hoping for a card or a nice note saying why he loved me or a homemade meal or something. Nothing. It really hurt my feelings and he thinks I'm overreacting. ugh

I'd be pretty crushed if my husband didn't even bother with a card, but he never forgets Valentine's, my birthday or our anniversary so it would also be VERY out of character for him.

On second thought...I'd probably be suspicious that something was wrong...

Valentines day is getting so ridiculous. Why only show your love one day? Anyways, I would only be upset that I got him something and he didn't get me anything. But just brush it off, mama. Valentines day is only one stupid day.

Quoting Kylees Mama:" Valentines day is getting so ridiculous. Why only show your love one day? Anyways, I would only be upset ... [snip!] ... that I got him something and he didn't get me anything. But just brush it off, mama. Valentines day is only one stupid day."

My family lives in Faribault! I was just there yesterday for Klik Photos Valentines special. have you ever been to them for photos?

Oh, realize it's one day, I think what hurt me most was the day before Valentines day my 3 year old daughter said daddy mommy got you a surprise for tomorrow .. So like he knew I had already got him something, but even if he would of helped make me something with the girls .. and I went to my parents yesterday and my mom and dad got me a card, so it seemed like a slap in the face that my parents get me a card but my own husband can't/wont.. idk I'm not holding it against him, I was just hurt.

You can't control what hurts you, despite what some people say. You can't just magically forget or get over it because you want to. I spent most the day yesterday crying and wishing I could smurfing get over it, trust me.

I've almost always been single for Vday, and the few times I wasn't, I never got anything. So my DH has been going on and on about how we finally have money and how great it is. So I was thinking wow I'm finally gonna get something for vday! It didn't need to be expensive, just anything. It's also our anniversary, we got married yesterday, I'm suffering through a difficult pregnancy with his first child.
I got a card. That's it.
I cried. A lot. And I hated it and I wanted it to stop and it didn't, which made me more angry and crying more >.<
It is perfectly fine to be upset or annoyed. Basically feel like they just gave up cause they got you now so they don't need to put in any effort, it's totally understandable.

I wouldn't care. I have enough old cards and notes laying around, I don't need to keep hoarding more. But you're not a baby just because it upset you. If you want cards or gifts or just some special gesture in the future, let him know you had expectations and were disappointed. If you keep that from him, he'll never know not receiving something like that upset you.

It wouldn't bother me....but I guess I would rather have a husband that showed me he loved me everyday, not just a day that a card shop told him he should.

We celebrated like we always do, exchanging funny e-cards on facebook. This was mine to him:

Yesterday was my birthday so him forgetting that would upset me.

Valentines isn't a big deal to me,I like cutesy silly gifts life the above posted eCard  

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" It wouldn't bother me....but I guess I would rather have a husband that showed me he loved me everyday, ... [snip!] ... card shop told him he should. We celebrated like we always do, exchanging funny e-cards on facebook. This was mine to him: "

Oh.

My.

Gawd.



This is the greatest Valentine I've seen in the history of ever.

Quoting The Doctor:" Oh. My. Gawd. This is the greatest Valentine I've seen in the history of ever."

My husband sent me:

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" My husband sent me: "</blockquote>




 
I have three pages of punny ones on tumblr
http://mamamockingbird.tumblr.com/tagged/Valentines

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" My husband sent me: "

LMAO.

Where did you find Richard?!