Quoting Rikka,:" Get one of those snuggli carriers and maybe that will help with cleaning and making food! Not sure how ... [snip!] ... can take him for a night? Or a good friend of yours who's also a momma? My cousin takes my little guy when I need a break."
he wont go in a carrier never has he hates them.I moved right before i had my 2nd son so i dont even know anyone around here to help me out and my mom works the night shift so she cant even really help. I am basically on my own with them 24/7