Quoting ThreeLittleBirds:" Why don't you go apply for public assistance? Is there someone you can stay with?"Everything has a wait list at least a year out. I just applied for food stamps so at least we will have those.
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" No offense, but why in world were you TTC with such a bad situation."We weren't. We quit trying , we tried for 2 years and then I got on Birth control and it didn't work out and I was in the middle of switching when I got pregnant.
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" I would probably not spend what little money you have going to get married. I would go seek public assistance, have your dude try some odd jobs. talk to friends and family."
Quoting ThreeLittleBirds:" You can't move with your dad. Does your boyfriend have family?"They don't have enough money for us to move with them right now.
Quoting ThreeLittleBirds:" I can't imagine your dad and his mom would leave you both to a homeless shelter."Well believe it cause nothing is stopping them from moving, they both know our situation
Quoting Tasha Norman:" where are you staying now? is there any way you can continue to stay there? ie maybe paying rent etc? ... [snip!] ... or he could try temp agencies. it's not permanent work, but he could get some saved up. can't you work more often as well? "He has already applied everywhere even staffing agencies. No my dad is moving to florida, that's where we live now.
Quoting ❤Casy+1❤:" He has already applied everywhere even staffing agencies. No my dad is moving to florida, that's where ... [snip!] ... florida, that's where we live now. I already work 20-40 hours a week babysitting 3 kids, all they can give me is $100 a week."sounds like you need a new job as well. even working fast food you can definitley make more than that. are you sure your SO isn't failing background checks or something? staffing agencies around here literally use felons all the time even. It's so strange that they wouldn't be getting him work. Maybe he should look into going back to school. Student grants and loans could help cover the cost of your living. (I'm not an advocate of taking out extra loans to cover things, but if it's a temporary fix and your SO really can't get any job, it might be necessary)