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posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" okay well it used to be a joint account i just dont use it anymore. i have my own account with the same bank and i dont mess with his crap."


But, you do. You did today.

If you aren't on the account, whether you are married or not, he could get you for stealing his information. If he is truly withholding your w2's, call the police or something. Stop trying to condone what you did. Yes, he is being an ass and screwing you over, but you didn't do anything any better by stealing his money.
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I'm due September 19th (a boy), have 3 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Arkansas
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Mindy Bradbury:" When your kids have nothing like mine did and we were married while he was out screwing every hooked ... [snip!] ... with not paying child support for two yrs thanks to Ohio. You shouldn't be so quick to judge when u don't know the situation !"

I HAVE been in a similar situation, so I DO know what it feels like, but NEVER ONCE did I steal money out of his account. Don't think that someone who refuses to say "you do what you've got to do" doesn't understand what it's like to have nothing and to struggle. The difference is that not all of us resort to criminal behavior to provide for our kids.
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I'm due July 6th (a boy), have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Dothan, Alabama
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" unless he took it off in the last few months then yes. i dont deal with his account. "

Why don't you go check that, but since you've already admitted you don't use that account, if your ex goes after you for theft, and you've got a real hard-ass for a judge, you're screwed.
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I'm due July 6th (a boy), have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Dothan, Alabama
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" honestly he has several warrants out for his arrest, no legal license, and no legal vehicle. hes not going to take me to court lmao"

You can say that, but his own behavior doesn't cancel yours out.

Also, HE doesn't have to take you to court, all he has to do is call the police and report it. The DISTRICT ATTORNEY will take you to court.
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I'm due July 6th (a boy), have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Dothan, Alabama
posted 15th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting PurpleBama582:</b>" You can say that, but his own behavior doesn't cancel yours out. Also, HE doesn't have to take you ... [snip!] ... have to take you to court, all he has to do is call the police and report it. The DISTRICT ATTORNEY will take you to court. "</blockquote>


!!!!
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I'm due November 3rd, have 1 child & live in Holland, Michigan
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" He could. But that would take too much effort on his part. Then he may actually have to see his children. "

You are sounding awfully cocky and nonchalant about this. You say you feel bad, but now it sounds like you really don't. You came here wanting everyone to tell you what you did was okay, and we didn't. Don't act butthurt and defensive now and act cocky that you aren't going to get in trouble for it. You might be surprised what he WILL do when you eff with his money.
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I'm due July 6th (a boy), have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Dothan, Alabama
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" He could. But that would take too much effort on his part. Then he may actually have to see his children. "

What does you stealing and committing fraud have to do with visitation with his children?
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I'm due December 28th, have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" Obviously you are that type of person if you did it already. And honestly, I wouldn't be using anyone's information without their consent. I'm pretty sure that's illegal  "

    
If he is smart, he will notify the police.
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I'm due November 8th, have 1 child & live in Dayton, Ohio
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" I am not STEALING anything. Technically we are not even legally separated nor have we filed for divorce. ... [snip!] ... diapers so what am i supposed to do. i have absolutely nobody to help me and he knows it so its a way to control me yet again."

Please. All you have to do is call your employer/daycare/whatever and get another W-2
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I'm due November 8th, have 1 child & live in Dayton, Ohio
posted 15th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Summer+[two]:</b>" I am not STEALING anything. Technically we are not even legally separated nor have we filed for divorce. ... [snip!] ... diapers so what am i supposed to do. i have absolutely nobody to help me and he knows it so its a way to control me yet again."</blockquote>




You are dense as hell  
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" He could. But that would take too much effort on his part. Then he may actually have to see his children. "


Calling the cops and telling them you stole his money isn't going to make him see his kids.

I don't get how you think this is all okay. My DH's checks go into MY bank account cause he doesn't have one in his name right now and he isn't on the account. But, before I spend anything, I ask him. Even if we were separated and he was being a dick, I still wouldn't steal his money.
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I'm due September 19th (a boy), have 3 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Arkansas
posted 15th Feb
Quoting Summer+[two]:" He could. But that would take too much effort on his part. Then he may actually have to see his children. "

I wouldnt worry about it hun, I would have done the same as you. He cant walk away from his responsibilites like alot of men think they can. Even if he did try to bring you to court about it, it would be thrown out because he has no proof it was you..Unless you signed something or its tied to you somehow they cant do anything for all they know he paid it and got pissed off and wants it back..
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I have 2 kids & live in Red Deer, Alberta
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