Quoting 3.24.10 ♥ 9.10.11:" You can't force someone into wanting something. He expressed how he didn't want to keep the pregnancy ... [snip!] ... some time, try to involve him without pressuring him. Sorry you are going through this. I can't imagine the emotional strain."
I also told him from the beginning i wasn't going to force him into being a father, and Yes it's very different for us Momma's carrying the baby inside us feeling the baby move inside us. But it doesn't become real for the father until they see/hold the baby. Yes he's the same age as me and that's what i'm thinking he's scared.. But it's hard for me emotionally without him here, i just want the emotional support from him.. But i think it's going to be a while before that even happens.