re: dont know what to do :( no judgement please...

Quoting justsotired2013:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justsotired2013:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Thank you! And I agree it's BS.  "</blockquote> It pisses me off they can include your child support as income!!!"

why?? it IS income

Quoting I Stab People:" why?? it IS income"

 

Try looking into trading babysitting hours with other mama's in your area, or headstart (long waiting lists, usually, though), or looking into an appeal to increase child support (I have NO clue how that works, though).

I'm sorry you're having a rough time and people are making so many assumptions on here.

As a country we're barely meeting our replacement rate, your children are precious resources, never feel ashamed.

Quoting Live!Laugh!Love!:" Try taking a drive with the kids when it gets too stressful...just to get out & clear your head. ... [snip!] ... newborn is a little older, you will adjust to the three and something will work out where you will be on your feet again.  "

  great advice! sounds likr something i would have said!


OP: i wish you the best of luck. im going through a lot as well. & self encouragment is a big thing right now for me and believing that trouble dont last always. your clouds are dark and gloomy right now. but don't give up. keep pushing & keep looking for things to better you for your little ones. good luck mommy <3 besides no o