weird or not weird??? so my husbands version of a romantic valentines day is spending it with his parents and two single brothers having dinner.. not having me and him time.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommeh2bee:</b>" weird or not weird??? so my husbands version of a romantic valentines day is spending it with his parents and two single brothers having dinner.. not having me and him time."</blockquote>


Him saying its romantic with his parents is just... Weird. IMO

I accidentally clicked not weird.. but it is very, very weird. How is hanging out with cock blockers going to be romantic (sorry I've always wanted to say that haha)

ok i will be honest with you he didnt say it was romantic but its the only plans he had for us. like common who wants to spend their valentines like that... besides him and his family.

Did HE straight out say he thought that was romantic because if he did I think he was joking. I think it would be a nice V-day though. V-day is about being with the people you love after all not just your SO/DH.

Well, I would not say weird.. I mean I cooked Valentines dinner for my mom as well as my husband haha but then again that was just dinner... I dont know why he wouldn't want time to yourselves... but ya

I just feel like Im not special... its either that or everyday rut. I guess I am asking to much for him to plan a day doing something.. ANYTHING other then sitting in the house watching netflix all day.

Quoting Mommeh2bee:" I just feel like Im not special... its either that or everyday rut. I guess I am asking to much for him ... [snip!] ... I am asking to much for him to plan a day doing something.. ANYTHING other then sitting in the house watching netflix all day."

Why don't you plan a day with him? Why does he need to plan it?

Not weird. Maybe not what most society's idea of Valentines is but not weird.

Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" Why don't you plan a day with him? Why does he need to plan it?"

well weve been stepping on eggshells and I told him 2 weks ago it would be a nice for a change is he planned a day for once and found a sitter. and Ive been going all week oh what should we do for V day... and yea I guess I did it to myself. If I want to do anything with my guy I have to plan it. I feel the relationship is so one sided in that aspect

Quoting Mommeh2bee:" I just feel like Im not special... its either that or everyday rut. I guess I am asking to much for him ... [snip!] ... I am asking to much for him to plan a day doing something.. ANYTHING other then sitting in the house watching netflix all day."

lol you are not asking to much at all... I know the feeling though... but I have learned that if I want something like that 9 times out of ten I am the one who has to make it happen -__-