Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:" Yes Im so very ungrateful yet Im the one who is always going out of my way for him and his family. Im ... [snip!] ... that Im wrong when you have no idea why I feel the way I do or the things that have happened that have made me feel this way. "
Quoting ~*~Modern*Day*Delilah~*~:" At least he tried....personally, I think you shouldn't have said anything....that really kills a guys ... [snip!] ... then upon closer inspection, they're bruised or dying....it all depends, he may not have even notice that they were dying. "
Quoting October2011:" wow..okay then. You have to learn that guys don't think like women do. They just don't. Their thought ... [snip!] ... is a gift. But If you are that unhappy then A. go to counceling B. let him know whats actually bothering you C. leave him."I do let him know whats bothering me and why its bothering me but he doesnt seem to get it. And I feel that after all this time I shouldnt have to tell him to do these things and his mom shouldnt have to tell him either he should do them on his own. I dont see how thats asking for so much.
Quoting Brink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:</b>" Yes Im so very ungrateful yet ... [snip!] ... Sounds like you're throwing a pity party now. If you're that unhappy and that put out do something about it."
Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:" I do let him know whats bothering me and why its bothering me but he doesnt seem to get it. And I feel ... [snip!] ... things and his mom shouldnt have to tell him either he should do them on his own. I dont see how thats asking for so much."
Quoting October2011:" It's not. But expecting things will only lead to disappointment. And if you talk to him about it and ... [snip!] ... its a pity gift. So theres really no winning here. It's nice to get surprised or pampered from time to time, I understand that."See our relationship has never been about gifts or anything like that. Ive always done everything I can for him and he does somethings for me as well. It just pisses me off that I do so much for him and in the process Ive put off my goals and dreams to make sure his mom is taken care of and that he is happy and all I want is a little appreciation for all the things I do. Im not asking for gifts or to be pampered because honestly Im not into all of that. I would just like him to for once acknowledge the things I do for him and for him to show me that he appreciates what I do.