re: Happy Freakin Valentine's

<blockquote><b>Quoting CottonCandyKiller:</b>" but is it too much to ask for a little romantic gesture? from my HUSBAND?"</blockquote>




yeah that kind of blows goats! I've been married for almost 13 years and I would still be pissed if my husband didn't at least say Happy Valentines Day and give me a hug or something.... :-\

Quoting CottonCandyKiller:" i'm sorry your LO's are sick. DD is finally getting over her crap. as i said, i'm happy she's been in ... [snip!] ... Valentine. it just kind of bums me out because i like to make a big deal out of all the 1st's. and DD is not cuddly at all EVER"

But that can't be true, I think your feelings are hurt, but you need BOTH of them everyday. Give your hubby a big smooch after work today and ask him to take you out. That's what I would do.

We're staying in tonight because the kids are sick, so I'm cooking DH an awesome, candlelit dinner and I'm gonna have him grab some wine ono the way home.

Quoting Inc0gnitus:" But that can't be true, I think your feelings are hurt, but you need BOTH of them everyday. Give your ... [snip!] ... the kids are sick, so I'm cooking DH an awesome, candlelit dinner and I'm gonna have him grab some wine ono the way home."

he won't be home till 3 a.m. we don't have money to do anything special. which is why i said i'd have been happy to just hear Happy Valentine's day. i got woke up to him being a total ass so i wasn't in the mood to kiss up to him.

Quoting CottonCandyKiller:" he won't be home till 3 a.m. we don't have money to do anything special. which is why i said i'd have ... [snip!] ... happy to just hear Happy Valentine's day. i got woke up to him being a total ass so i wasn't in the mood to kiss up to him."

Can you call him and tell him happy valentines day and maybe make plans to do something special tomorrow? Not going out, but maybe just a simple, personal lunch or dinner? The only reason I ask is because this is obviously bothering you and you definitely don't want it looming over your marriage forever, you know?

Quoting Inc0gnitus:" Can you call him and tell him happy valentines day and maybe make plans to do something special tomorrow? ... [snip!] ... I ask is because this is obviously bothering you and you definitely don't want it looming over your marriage forever, you know?"

oh, i'm not like that. lol. i know this whole post may seem like it but i try not to hold on to trivial things like this. i'm just bummed. he's got the same schedule tomo. so at most we'd be able to have lunch together but i'm also feeling a bit bitter. after his attitude today i don't feel like pampering him by cooking...sorry i'm just a bitch

Did you do anything for him ?