Just fed up

with my friend. I love her and everything but she is just really smurfing pissing me off.
I just need to vent, so forgive me.

You come to MY smurfing house, eat and drink ALL of my food/drinks, let your kid trash the SmUrf out of my house, sit there and bitch about how I am expected to clean all of this every single day when I should be taking it easy blah blah blah but DO YOU make your kid pick up all the smurf she threw everywhere? Do you even offer to help?! NO then SHUT THE SmUrf UP.

You bitch and moan about how you have no where to live and no food blah blah blah, you get your tax return so you can finally get a place to live for you and your kid, what do you do? GO AND BUY HER 10 smurfing pairs of shoes, clothes she DOES NOT need. a smurfing big ass tv and a bunch of random smurf... you have spent basically your entire tax return and guess who still has NO SmUrfING HOME.

You bitch about your boyfriend cheating on you and treating you like smurf, do you leave him? NO of course not... you like the attention you get too much from everyone feeling so bad for you for being in a smurf relationship.

I am tired of being the "discipline" for you goddamn kid and the automatic babysitter because " I'm home anyways"
I am just so goddamn done, I love you to death but you are just SO stupid!!!


One of the last things to set me off was yesterday when I was driving her and all the kids around doing random crap and we were on the free way and her kid just decided to take her smurfing carseat straps OFF and start jumping around my mini van. So I whipped over on the side of the free way and climbed back and put her back in and scolded her, what did my friend say?
Oh it's not a big deal she's fine... NO SHE IS NOT that is SO smurfing unsafe!
Ugh... I'm just taking a break from seeing her for a bit... maybe then I won't want to punch her in the face...

sounds like a friend i use to have but than i took her out of my life for good.

I know you love her, but she sounds like a soul-sucking leech and you're enabling her behavior by allowing her to treat you this way & having no consequences. Just like she does w/her child.

Why do you need her in your life? She's not contributing to it in any positive way. I really think you need to reevaluate what you're willing to put up with and boot her out of your life. Yes, it will hurt and there will be a void.. but in hindsight, you will see how less stressful your life is without her. I've done this twice in my life and I've NEVER regretted it.