Quoting ThatsAlotaNuts:" Im thinking maybe I should go in just so I can stop worrying about every little thing that way they may ... [snip!] ... is my second pregnancy but I thought it was supposed to be easier then the first lol I didnt realise theyd be SO different."
I have to write on this, in most second pregnancys the baby doesn't engage till labour but they can go in and out of the pelvis as the area is stretched out and has more room to move around. I have been in major pain in my pelvis area (alot worse than Axyl) for months now and its just getting worse to the point I can't roll over at night without crying. Its not easier at all. I would stop stressing, you have done this before.