would you be jealous?

this girl SO used to be friends with recently added him on facebook... im not really a jealousy type and i trust SO a lot. but i couldnt help but notice she's recently single and talking to him a lot. they never slept together but made out like 10 years ago... not worried about that. i dont know it just rubs me the wrong way. i saw they were shooting the smurf and he was very general and talking about our family and she kept throwing in winky smilies... i like never snoop but something told me too... would you be jealous?

I wouldn't be jealous but I tend to get territorial over my SO, especially with girls that he had a thing with in the past.

I wouldn't be jealous, I would be cautious.

My ideology is that I trust my SO...but I don't trust anyone else. lol. I would keep an eye on her and if she does stuff that makes you uncomfortable, tell your SO.

Quoting Snickles:" I wouldn't be jealous, I would be cautious. "

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" My ideology is that I trust my SO...but I don't trust anyone else. lol. I would keep an eye on her and if she does stuff that makes you uncomfortable, tell your SO."</blockquote>




!!!!! I agree

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" My ideology is that I trust my SO...but I don't trust anyone else. lol. I would keep an eye on her and if she does stuff that makes you uncomfortable, tell your SO."</blockquote>



That doesn't makes sense. If you trust your SO then it shouldn't matter if you trust someone else. But that just my opinion.

Quoting Kylie's👣Mommy.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" My ideology is that I trust my SO...but ... [snip!] ... That doesn't makes sense. If you trust your SO then it shouldn't matter if you trust someone else. But that just my opinion."

I trust my SO to not do anything with anyone else but I don't trust other girls to not at least try. I wouldn't want a girl trying to mack on my husband, or worse, even if he rejects her.

Quoting Kylie's👣Mommy.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" My ideology is that I trust my SO...but ... [snip!] ... That doesn't makes sense. If you trust your SO then it shouldn't matter if you trust someone else. But that just my opinion."

LMAO this!! That's just another way of saying you don't

Not at all. Jealousy is a useless emotion. I trust my husband 100%.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" LMAO this!! That's just another way of saying you don't"</blockquote>




Not necessarily. You can trust your husband/SO but not trust other women with how they are now a days. Its normal to watch what the other woman does since they may make a move knowing that your husband/SO is in a relationship/marriage. It would piss most ppl off if a woman did that. Nothing worse than a home wrecking whore. (Or one who tries to) Did that make any sense? Idk if I have now confused everyone lol idk I'm tired. My cat decided to keep me up all damn night lol

Quoting Kylie's👣Mommy.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" My ideology is that I trust my SO...but ... [snip!] ... That doesn't makes sense. If you trust your SO then it shouldn't matter if you trust someone else. But that just my opinion."

This for me. I send winky smiles to loads of people it doesnt mean I want to hump them x

Quoting Kylie's👣Mommy.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" My ideology is that I trust my SO...but ... [snip!] ... That doesn't makes sense. If you trust your SO then it shouldn't matter if you trust someone else. But that just my opinion."

thats what I thought too!
it's not about whether or not you trust other people, if you fully trust your SO then there is no worries about what others do. I used to tell myself that I trusted my ex, I just didn't trust the other girls... ya I was just in denial and just never trusted him.
OP it doesn't sound like your jealous, it sounds more like your just uncomfortable with it, my husband had an old friend add him sometime last year and even though he kept telling her he was happily married and was a dad, I just didn't feel right about her and I let him know I wasn't comfortable with her and I told him that I didn't care whether or not he kept her in his life, but she wasn't going to be in mine because she kept bringing up drama bs and I didn't want it around the kids (she kept blaming him because her mom took her kids away from her saying that it was his fault because he was overseas and just "disappeared"). He ended up deleting her on his own terms.

Quoting Snickles:" I wouldn't be jealous, I would be cautious. "

 

Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" LMAO this!! That's just another ... [snip!] ... Did that make any sense? Idk if I have now confused everyone lol idk I'm tired. My cat decided to keep me up all damn night lol"

Not much faith in his self control, eh?