Quoting Kylie's👣Mommy.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" My ideology is that I trust my SO...but ... [snip!] ... That doesn't makes sense. If you trust your SO then it shouldn't matter if you trust someone else. But that just my opinion."
thats what I thought too!
it's not about whether or not you trust other people, if you fully trust your SO then there is no worries about what others do. I used to tell myself that I trusted my ex, I just didn't trust the other girls... ya I was just in denial and just never trusted him.
OP it doesn't sound like your jealous, it sounds more like your just uncomfortable with it, my husband had an old friend add him sometime last year and even though he kept telling her he was happily married and was a dad, I just didn't feel right about her and I let him know I wasn't comfortable with her and I told him that I didn't care whether or not he kept her in his life, but she wasn't going to be in mine because she kept bringing up drama bs and I didn't want it around the kids (she kept blaming him because her mom took her kids away from her saying that it was his fault because he was overseas and just "disappeared"). He ended up deleting her on his own terms.