re: would you be jealous?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" I trust my SO to not do anything with anyone else but I don't trust other girls to not at least try. I wouldn't want a girl trying to mack on my husband, or worse, even if he rejects her."</blockquote>

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting S*its & giggles:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" LMAO this!! That's just another ... [snip!] ... Did that make any sense? Idk if I have now confused everyone lol idk I'm tired. My cat decided to keep me up all damn night lol"</blockquote>




If you fully trust your SO it doesn't matter if a girl is a home wrecking whore. If he's truly a good man then no worries.  

Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" LMAO this!! That's just another ... [snip!] ... Did that make any sense? Idk if I have now confused everyone lol idk I'm tired. My cat decided to keep me up all damn night lol"

Yes but your trusting your SO/hubby is what matters because HE is the one who will make that decision to stay faithful so in essence it shouldn't matter with other women 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" I trust my SO to not do anything with anyone else but I don't trust other girls to not at least try. I wouldn't want a girl trying to mack on my husband, or worse, even if he rejects her."</blockquote>




Well if you trust him, then it don't matter if girls try. Because they will. Just like I'm sure guys try with you. A relationship without trust is a pointless relationship.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" Yes but your trusting your SO/hubby is what matters because HE is the one who will make that decision to stay faithful so in essence it shouldn't matter with other women "</blockquote>




!!! Exactly.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lilly and Laya's momma:</b>" Yes but your trusting your SO/hubby is what matters because HE is the one who will make that decision to stay faithful so in essence it shouldn't matter with other women "</blockquote>




Yeah I see what you all mean. When I was ina previous relationship I hated when women hit on him even when I knew he wouldn't do anything. I just hate when women go after a taken man.

Quoting Kylie's👣Mommy.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" I trust my SO to not do anything with anyone ... [snip!] ... girls try. Because they will. Just like I'm sure guys try with you. A relationship without trust is a pointless relationship."

You're seriously reading way too far into what I said, lol. I do trust my husband, I know with 100% certainty he wouldn't ever do anything. But at the same time, out of basic respect, I wouldn't want another girl trying to get on with him, not because I don't trust him to not do anything, but because I know that not everyone has the same morals as us to not try and mess with a married man.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" You're seriously reading way too far into what I said, lol. I do trust my husband, I know with 100% ... [snip!] ... him to not do anything, but because I know that not everyone has the same morals as us to not try and mess with a married man."</blockquote>




Lol okay.

i guess jealous is the wrong word... im just irritated this girl is flirting with someone who is obviously in a relationship

<blockquote><b>Quoting Salad Fingers:</b>" You're seriously reading way too far into what I said, lol. I do trust my husband, I know with 100% ... [snip!] ... him to not do anything, but because I know that not everyone has the same morals as us to not try and mess with a married man."</blockquote>




It still comes down to whether or not he initiates it, if he is faithful then he will tell the girl to leave him alone and walk away and you won't have to worry about what the other girl does.

I think your over reaacting. You said the convo was casual & winky faces don't mean she wants to get with your DH. Whenever I reconnect with an old friend/ bf/ whatever, we tend to chat a lot at first. Catching up is all. As long as she doesn't flirt with him then I wouldn't worry

Quoting Salad Fingers:" You're seriously reading way too far into what I said, lol. I do trust my husband, I know with 100% ... [snip!] ... him to not do anything, but because I know that not everyone has the same morals as us to not try and mess with a married man."

I get what you are saying. I feel the same way. Lol.

Quoting M walls:" I think your over reaacting. You said the convo was casual & winky faces don't mean she wants to get ... [snip!] ... whatever, we tend to chat a lot at first. Catching up is all. As long as she doesn't flirt with him then I wouldn't worry"

i just think its ironic that shes recently single and friend requesting and messaging him

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krystie321:</b>" i just think its ironic that shes recently single and friend requesting and messaging him"</blockquote>




I don't blame you for feeling that way, I would too and he would know it lol I'm kind of horrible at hiding my feeling from my DH. Have you told him your uncomfortable with it?