re: so embarrassed... (sex post)

Quoting Zombie Mom ✄:" my dh has never been able to, together for 7 years, but no man has ever given me one... so I don't worry about it. i can use a vibe if I want to. but we still have fun without me Oing"

Same here.. I don't think I've ever had one while with another person unless it's from oral. I can with my vibrator lol but that's about it. I think I need clitoral stimulation, I don't even feel close when it's just intercourse. It sucks!

Quoting I♡C.:" Except I can't seem to admit it to DH. I totally fake em'.  "

I totally fake them too.  

Quoting flossy (11wks with #4):" There is a product that you can rub on your clit im not sure what it would be called in the USA but her ... [snip!] ... I know who have it I havnt heard anyone say it doesnt work. It only takes a couple of minutes to kick in and you good to go"

I've never really liked lubes, sometimes I feel like I have an allergic reaction to them.. it makes me hurt! Other times it just doesn't seem to do anything.

Quoting KTSKDR:" But I can not have an O with my SO. But I can get one uheem alone . Weve tried clit vibrators didnt ... [snip!] ... he wants me to too. When we dont use a condom it doesnt start hurting but SO cums to quick for me to get off. What do we do? "

Maybe before you and him go at it, you should try getting yourself off a bit first and then let him work on you to finish??? Just a thought it could help!!

thanks for all the advice ladies. Really appreciated. I will be keeping everything shared in mind.