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posted 13th Feb

so im pregnant with my kid's father's baby... but im not with him anymore and havent been for almost a year now.. i am now with someone completely different and hes wonderful !!! but i stopped by my baby father's work today with our daughter to let him see her , and i also let him touch my baby bump and kiss my baby bump but i feel so guilty .. did i do anything wrong ?? im not sure after all i am carrying his bab0y so i thought it was only fair to let him feel our new baby but i cant help but feel so guilty because i love my boyfriend so much and i feel like ive done something wrong .. maybe im just overreacting .

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[♥]Mrs. Taylor

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posted 13th Feb

I wouldn't have let him kiss my belly.... Yeah, his baby is in there, but its YOUR belly.

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Dovahkiin

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posted 13th Feb

You're not with him but you're pregnant with his baby? Does your boyfriend know you cheated?

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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky

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The Blissful Six

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posted 13th Feb

I don't know. I wouldn't let my ex touch my body let alone kiss my stomach. That sounds a bit intimate, but if you're comfortable with it then whatever I guess. How do you think your boy friend would feel?

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Onalee's Mummy

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posted 13th Feb

Tough one. Whatever floats your boat.

The kissing was maybe to far. That's quite intimate IMO. But strangers touch my belly without asking so that's no big deal

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Little_Discourage

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posted 13th Feb

I guess if you picture your current boyfriend doing that to the pregnant mother of his child and it upsets you, then it probably wasn't okay. If it is something you don't think you'd be upset over, then I wouldn't worry about it.

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Jenna+1online

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posted 13th Feb

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" You're not with him but you're pregnant with his baby? Does your boyfriend know you cheated? "</blockquote>

Um, I think the bf is new. Like since after she was already pregnant.

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posted 13th Feb

EDIT: read it wrong

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⚓ Sarah ⚓online

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posted 13th Feb

Quoting bbbt:" You're not with him but you're pregnant with his baby? Does your boyfriend know you cheated? "

who says she cheated? Maybe she got with the new boyfriend after they broke up.

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Dovahkiin

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posted 13th Feb

Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" You're not with him but you're pregnant with his ... [snip!] ... your boyfriend know you cheated? "</blockquote> Um, I think the bf is new. Like since after she was already pregnant."

Hm, okay, I guess I read it wrong, I thought she said she's been with new guy for a year.

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S*its & giggles

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posted 13th Feb

So did you cheat on your current bf? I think the touching/kissing was inappropriate since it is your ex and you are in a relationship. Would you like if your bf was touching and kissing the stomach of some woman he had possibly gotten pregnant? It may not seem like a big deal but I'm sure to your bf it will be if he ever finds out.

EDIT: just saw I read it wrong. I had thought i read that you had gotten pregnant with your exs baby while with your current bf. Sorry.

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⚓ Sarah ⚓online

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posted 13th Feb

Quoting bbbt:" Hm, okay, I guess I read it wrong, I thought she said she's been with new guy for a year. "

she broke up with the old guy almost a year ago

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Yurvette [♥]online

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posted 13th Feb

Quoting bbbt:" You're not with him but you're pregnant with his baby? Does your boyfriend know you cheated? "

I was thinking the same thing.. It was a huge head scratcher to me...

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Kimber-lily

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posted 13th Feb

Quoting bbbt:" You're not with him but you're pregnant with his baby? Does your boyfriend know you cheated? "

Who said anything about cheating?

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*Mary Moon*

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posted 13th Feb

If you haven't been with him for over a year now I'm guessing you got pregnant while things weren't serious? Id say you are allowing too much intimacy with the belly kissing and touching. That is your body he is kissing and touching, not the baby per say. Maybe you feel guilty because you got pregnant while you weren't with him and any physical contact now while you aren't with him feels wrong inappropriate to you now.

feeling so much guilt, i dont think i did anything wrong did

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