re: feeling so much guilt, i dont think i did anything wrong did

Quoting S*its & giggles:" So did you cheat on your current bf? I think the touching/kissing was inappropriate since it is your ... [snip!] ... saw I read it wrong. I had thought i read that you had gotten pregnant with your exs baby while with your current bf. Sorry."

At least I wasn't the only one, lol.

no i did not cheat on my current boyfriend at all , i havent been with my babys father for almost a year . but yeah i think you all are right .. that i messed up sort of its not really that big of a deal .. there is absolutely NOTHING there between us me and my kids father . my kids father only pecked my stomach and just kept his hand on my stomach for a second because the baby was kicking . it made me feel a little uncomfortable but im def not going to let it happen again . i learned my lesson .

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" At least I wasn't the only one, lol. "</blockquote>




Lol I honestly read it that way. Didn't realize I read it wrong till others asking the same thing were told it was read wrong. Lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Hm, okay, I guess I read it wrong, I thought she said she's been with new guy for a year. "</blockquote>




No it says she hasn't been with the father for over a year (obviously she means relationship wise lol)

I like everyone else agree that the kissing was too much...touching is ok tho.

<blockquote><b>Quoting lisa marie baby:</b>" no i did not cheat on my current boyfriend at all , i havent been with my babys father for almost a year ... [snip!] ... baby was kicking . it made me feel a little uncomfortable but im def not going to let it happen again . i learned my lesson ."</blockquote>


Does he have feelings for you still? Seems a little odd an ex would do such an intimate act

Anyway OP, you don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Which I think this did. I would say let him talk go the belly but no touching IMO.

Quoting lisa marie baby:" no i did not cheat on my current boyfriend at all , i havent been with my babys father for almost a year ... [snip!] ... baby was kicking . it made me feel a little uncomfortable but im def not going to let it happen again . i learned my lesson ."

Did I swallow stupid pills today or...?

You haven't been with your baby's father for a year, but you are pregnant with his baby? I'm so confused.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Did I swallow stupid pills today or...? You haven't been with your baby's father for a year, but you are pregnant with his baby? I'm so confused.  "</blockquote>




I think maybe she met current bf AFTER getting pregnant. Like she was hooking up with the ex without being together, got pregnant, started relationship with new guy. I think. Lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Did I swallow stupid pills today or...? You haven't been with your baby's father for a year, but you are pregnant with his baby? I'm so confused.  "</blockquote>




I think she means relationship wise. She's obviously has had sex with him. Lol
I think it's just ops wording.

Quoting bbbt:" Did I swallow stupid pills today or...? You haven't been with your baby's father for a year, but you are pregnant with his baby? I'm so confused.  "

I am confused as well...If her ex is the father then yes she has "been" with him within the last year. OP you should really clarify your post it doesn't make sense

yes we havent been together for a year almost .. i got pregnant with his baby 7 months ago when things werent serious we were trying to work things out but it didnt work out at all .. and ive been with my new boyfriend for over 2 months now

Quoting lisa marie baby:" yes we havent been together for a year almost .. i got pregnant with his baby 7 months ago when things ... [snip!] ... we were trying to work things out but it didnt work out at all .. and ive been with my new boyfriend for over 2 months now"

Ok thanks for clearing things up. But yes if I was the current bf I would be upset and uncomfortable. That may be your exs baby but he shouldn't be kissing/touching your belly

there is zero intimate feelings between me and my kids father , he told me today he doesnt want to be with me , and i dont want to be with him obviously . i spoke very highly of my boyfriend as well .

i understand completely , i wont let it happen again . i honestly felt wierd when he gave my bump a kiss but i tried to be understanding and have respect that his baby is in there . i mean if it was my man giving a woman he got pregnant a kiss on her bump and touched it to feel his baby i would be understanding . i would be a little jealous but i would def be understanding about it just because thats his baby .

<blockquote><b>Quoting lisa marie baby:</b>" i understand completely , i wont let it happen again . i honestly felt wierd when he gave my bump a kiss ... [snip!] ... i would be understanding . i would be a little jealous but i would def be understanding about it just because thats his baby ."</blockquote>




You're a bigger woman than me. I wouldn't like that at all and would probably get pissed and start a fight over it. Lol. But I also have a lot of trust issues, jealousy issues, and self esteem problems because of some personal things I've been going through for all most 4 years. Maybe one day I'll stop being a jealous worried bitch lol