how to deal?

hey ladies.. haven't posted in a minute.. but i'm glad this place is still alive.
i miss all of you/this forum
anyway, a lot has changed for me. i've had a child. he's already a year and a half. his name is Quinn.
his father and i have been broken up for about 7 months now, and he's been in a relationship with another girl for 6 months now. he rebounded very quickly, even though i was the one who broke things off. back then i wasnt thinking with my right mind.. i was struggling with herion addiction and being a mother.. since then i have been 6 months clean now... and i realize i made a mistake by breaking things off with my sons father. i really miss him and want to get back together. i bought him a valentines day car (a funny one), even though he's dating this girl. i dont want to be "that girl" but his current girlfriend is always around my son and started dating my ex only 3 weeks after we broke up.. knowing we had a child together. shes never tried to introduce herself to me and i would NEVER try to go for a guy who i knew was in a relationship, but i feel this is a bit different. ANYWAY, enough with the details... i'm wondering if anyone could help me with this. i don't know if i should spill my feelings out in the valentines day card i got him, tell him i'm sincerely sorry i broke things off back then and treated him badly, that i wasnt thinking with a clear mind but now that i'm sober i really think we could have a shot at being a family again. i dont know if i should do this or not. i'm so nervous. hopefully someone can give me some advice/input.. but if not i hope everyone has a happy valentines day..

xoxo- kelli.

No you shouldn't. If he is in a relationship and happy it is very disrespectful and selfish to do what you're thinking of.

I personally wouldnt do that. Hes already in a new established relationship, if he was single it would be another story. This would probably start unnecessary drama.

Honestly, I'd send him a letter explaining how you feel, you're sorry, feel you made a mistake.
His choice to respond or not.

Leave it alone, what's in the past needs to stay in the past. You made a mistake and now you have to live with it, don't break up a happy relationship up because you still have feelings for him, and there is nothing different about going after someone in a relationship. He may be your childs father but that doesn't mean you get more of an advantage.

Quoting 36-24-36OnlyIfshes5-3:" No you shouldn't. If he is in a relationship and happy it is very disrespectful and selfish to do what you're thinking of."

I agree with this. This would cause lots of drama for you.

Quoting 36-24-36OnlyIfshes5-3:" No you shouldn't. If he is in a relationship and happy it is very disrespectful and selfish to do what you're thinking of."

I agree with this. This would cause lots of drama for you.