re: Smurf on my life

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" Not out to get them. But hyper aware of their single-ness. On fathers day, I was hyper aware of not having a father. Any other day it was not a bother but on THAT day, its hard. "

And I can get that. I guess it's just the people who feel the need to eliminate anyone elses enjoyment of the day that get me. I may not celebrate some Holidays, but it doesn't bother me if other people choose to. . . Likewise, before I was in a relationship Valentines Day didn't bother me. Now though? Any mention of it is met with an instant response of how "stupid the day is, it's really just an attempt to kick single people" and on and on.

I'm like. . . really? I mean, it's just a celebration. . .

Quoting she nan igans:" And I can get that. I guess it's just the people who feel the need to eliminate anyone elses enjoyment ... [snip!] ... it's really just an attempt to kick single people" and on and on. I'm like. . . really? I mean, it's just a celebration. . . "

I hate valentines day... but only because I think it's another annoying hallmark day. lol

Quoting she nan igans:" And I can get that. I guess it's just the people who feel the need to eliminate anyone elses enjoyment ... [snip!] ... it's really just an attempt to kick single people" and on and on. I'm like. . . really? I mean, it's just a celebration. . . "

I dont recall saying any of that? I just called it Singles Awareness Day. And Im not even single. Either way, this has hijacked the OPs thread.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" I dont recall saying any of that? I just called it Singles Awareness Day. And Im not even single. Either way, this has hijacked the OPs thread. "

I didn't mean YOU said that. I was just talking about the subject.

And you're right. I'm sorry OP, I didn't mean to get distracted.

I'm sorry you're having a rough time *hugs*

Jesus Christ I hope you're not bruised because I think you are... Maybe I misread the OP, god I hope I did...  
Hope you're ok. I don't even know what to say   smurf.
And screw vday. I've been with my SO for 8years and probably won't get anything lol.
You're awesome. Done be so hard on yourself. R lost a good thing. You will rise from this a stronger woman. <3

sweet heart I hate to say it but if you're covered in bruises ... and the news about what happened has got round the school ... then men are going to be a bit wary. Especially the nice ones who won't want to look like they're taking advantage

I really hope you are doing alright. I've read a lot of your threads, and you deserve better then him. You are beautiful, smart and I'm betting an awesome accent! Be your own Valentine this year, love yourself.

oh no i didnt know. I hate to say it but you can do way better. he made you so miserable. and if its any consolation i think your hot