not sure what to think

ok so i had ryker 4 months ago and about 2 months ago we got pregnate again, i found out about a week and a half ago, but yesterday i woke up and i was bleeding very heavily, so i went to the hospital and i misscarried, im not sure what to think i wanted another child and now this... im not sure if its ok to be sad, we didnt tell anyone yet... so everyone is assuming im just being a bitch... i dont want to say anything to anyone clint is upset, but is handling it better than i am... i just didnt know i would react this way... i know thats a shitty thing to say... but i didnt think i would get this upset... and now im not sure what to do... can anyone just give me some advice about how im soppuse to feel?

You lost your child, of course your going to be upset. Maybe it would help if you told your family and friends and they would be supporting and there for you.

I cant give you advice on how your supposed to feel, but I can tell you being upset is normal. Its fine for you to be sad, you just lost your baby. I know its hard but try to keep your head up for Ryker. If you want, tell ppl, maybe it will make you feel better to talk about it.

I would feel pretty much the same way ur feeling right now... by not knowing how to feel. I'm so sry for ur loss hun. Seriously that's way too much to take on, especially after just having a baby. I hope u stay strong!

thanks guys... its nice to know i have people out there who understand

I lost one aswell and friday the thirteen will be a whole year since he's been gone. My husband took it hard aswell. Support from your family could be the best thing for you right now. I know at the time when I lost my baby I didn't want anyone to know cause I just didn't want to talk about it. I was just so confused and upset. But when I was ready to face the world it made me feel better to let it all out instead of keeping it to myself. There's someone out there who went through what you went through and talking to them will help. Just remember your little angel is up there looking down at you. Things happen for a reason even though it may seem like your world is crumbling. God closes one door any opens another. I lost my baby at 20 weeks and Im happy to say I am nowpregnet andar 23 weeks. Just stay strong and things will work out.

Your hormones are still all messed up from just having a baby, not to mention new pregnancy hormones as well. It's completely normal to be confused and not know what/how to feel. Don't worry about how you are supposed to feel. Just feel what you are feeling in the moment and expect it to change on a dime. I'm so sorry for your loss, hang in there!

Even if you weren't planning on having another one so soon you got used to the idea of being preggo again and having another baby in your life. sure you can feel sad. It's a sad thing to lose a baby. Just don't rush and get preggo again just cause you lost this one. Enjoy your baby and when the time is right you can try again. I got preggo 6 months after my first was born and miscarried right away. We didn't have another (by choice) til my first was 4. I speak from my own experience. Not saying you should wait that long but just saying I know how you feel. I've been there.