Would it bother you....

Would it bother you/upset you/anger you, whatever, if your boyfriend/fiancee was going to his soon to be ex wife's house on his lunch break several times a week, if not everyday?

Why or why not?

 

Um, yes. A lot. Why is he doing that?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vile Tramp:</b>" Would it bother you/upset you/anger you, whatever, if your boyfriend/fiancee was going to his soon to be ex wife's house on his lunch break several times a week, if not everyday? Why or why not? "</blockquote>




Not right away I would ask wtf is up but I wouldn't be happy for sure

Quoting ℳary ℐane:"   Um, yes. A lot. Why is he doing that?"

I have no idea. He just shows up and because this is our "marital" house, I have no means to stop him.


** I'm the ex wife, not the girlfriend/fiancee.

Quoting ℳary ℐane:"   Um, yes. A lot. Why is he doing that?"

 

Depends on whether they have kids together and the kids are there or not.

If not, then ya, that would bother me. There's too much history there for me to just push it aside.

Yes.
For the obvious reasons.

Depends - are there kids? If so, possibly not, it'd only bother me if he hadn't told me and I'd still find out.

If no kids are involved.. or the kids are clearly at school or something, then yes, I would be upset because I fail to see the reason why..

Um yes!

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Quoting Vile Tramp:" I have no idea. He just shows up and because this is our "marital" house, I have no means to stop him. ** I'm the ex wife, not the girlfriend/fiancee. "

Are you hooking up? lol.

If I was the GF I'd be ticked off.

Abso-freakin-lutely. I wouldn't need an explanation, I would automatically assume he was cheating and leave him. There's just no way I'd put up with that. It'd be the same thing if I did that to him, also. It's just not normal in the least IMO.

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Are you hooking up? lol. If I was the GF I'd be ticked off. "

Oh god smurfing no! Lol.

He tattoo'd her name on his "member" ( he told me after we first separated), and there is NO way in SmUrf I would help him cheat on her, like he cheated on me. No way, no how.

Quoting Vile Tramp:" I have no idea. He just shows up and because this is our "marital" house, I have no means to stop him. ** I'm the ex wife, not the girlfriend/fiancee. "

so he's just showing up at your house  

Idk about you, but when I break up with someone I typically don't want to be around them if I don't have to be. And I would make that damn clear.

Do they have kids together?

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" so he's just showing up at your house   Idk about you, but when I break up with someone I typically don't want to be around them if I don't have to be. And I would make that damn clear."

Yepp.. I don't enjoy being around him, but seeing as how we have 2 children together, I am pretty much forced to be around him.

But my lawyer said that I cannot physically keep him out of our property without him having legal recourse against me.  .