pregnancy question

im just curious .. can certain men get certain women pregnant ? for example , i was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years and we tried to have children and it never happened but he got another girl pregnant . i wasnt on any birth control or anything . i've gotten pregnant by one man only which is my daughter's father ... im just curious .

Maybe she cheated on him? Lol I don't think it has anything to do with certain men. Honestly maybe he has a low sperm count?

hmm im not sure lol i was just wondering though because i just find it odd . he could have a low sperm count who knows . but im pretty sure the kids are his .. she's pregnant with twins ! and theres twins in his family . i just thought maybe only two certain people can have kids , like they mix well .. i know this question is kind of confusing lol .

ive seen it happen (not literally), my cousin was with her ex 6 years they broke up she was pregnant within a month with another guy. I also have a friend that tried with an ex for 3 years and then got pregnant within 3 months with another guy.

yeah its wierd , its like only certain people can have kids together and some cant .

Quoting SleepyBaby401:" yeah its wierd , its like only certain people can have kids together and some cant ."

I have definitely noticed it lol its like some people are just more compatible

yeah haha but hey im glad i didnt get pregnant with my ex of 5 years !! he is so dangerous , i cant imagine having him as the father of my children . my kids father is no prize either , but hes not violent and such like my ex !

Quoting SleepyBaby401:" yeah haha but hey im glad i didnt get pregnant with my ex of 5 years !! he is so dangerous , i cant imagine ... [snip!] ... imagine having him as the father of my children . my kids father is no prize either , but hes not violent and such like my ex !"

yea my ex is an ass but not violent or anything.

blahhh a good portion of men suck out there , glad i found a good man though finally who loves me & my children !!

Quoting SleepyBaby401:" blahhh a good portion of men suck out there , glad i found a good man though finally who loves me & my children !!"

So have I   FINALLY ahahah

thats good ! it takes a while to find the right one ... but good thing come to those who wait ( :

I was with my ex husband for 6 years and we got pregnant, but lost them very early (farthest along was 9wks). I went to multiple doctors and they all told me that I was unable to carry. I've had a total of 6 miscarriages. I had given up. I was married for four years. I married a boy, not a man. I finally met someone last summer (6wks after I separated from husband). I felt a raw and powerful connection with this man. I could be my weird, dark, and quirky self without him judging. I got pregnant literally the first time. *I blame the Harley for fixing my uterus...lol* I thought I wouldn't get a chance to be a mother. And I thought I would never meet my soul mate. Now, I'm 28 and I am 30 weeks along with my first child. My son will have the best daddy in the world. So, to answer your question, sweetie, YES! Certain couplings tend to conceive easier than others. I know there are mounds of medical findings that support this thoery, but I know, undoubtedly, that I was given another chance. My big burly biker is the man I will spend the rest of my life with. He gave me the ultimate gift and I am forever blessed to be giving him his first son.

I always wondered the same. Me n my ex tried for 2 yrs no luck. We split and i now have 2 kids with my husband and he has a few with other women. Idk if its so much of only getting pregnant by certain people as much as it's more of not the right time and gods plan.

Twins is determined by the woman.

thanks ladies ! i figured the same ! i just thought it was a interesting question to ask !!