Quoting SAFFY™:" I don't wear a wedding set. I just...don't. I own one but meh. I just don't really like wedding sets. I'm weird. But I really want a mother ring. Would it be weird to wear that as a wedding band? "
I've been married 5 years and I haven't worn mine for most of that time. I have a set but I gained weight after getting married.. and I'm too embarrassed to go have it resized, so.. I do plan to lose weight.. some day lol.. but.. at the moment.. everyone knows I'm married and.. my husband understands how I feel about resizing it. plus He plans to buy me a ring that is more beautiful and a tid bit more expensive since when we got married we were just poor college students