Quoting I am the STIG!:" We just got into another argument. He just got done playing the game and when I told him he could unblock ... [snip!] ... nose by myself he could too. He called me worthless and slapped the nose syringe out of my hand when I tried to hand it to him."
Look.. take the nose syringe and stick in his eye. I kid but seriously... people are on here making excuses saying that their men didnt help out either. That's bullsmurf. Sure you get up to nurse at night but he could change her diaper and/or rock her back to sleep.... Futhermore a 11 month is damn near the size of a full blown adult (exaggeration) so I'm pretty sure any feeling of being afraid to hurt the baby has ceased. He is being lazy because he can and because it has been tolerated. Unplug the internet and hide the cord that will the gaming in the bud. And if he keeps this nonsense up, it may be time to put your foot down as it pertains to the relationship.
I'm sorry that you are going through this. It sucks.