UGH! Sex drive come back!

My son is a little over 2 months old, and even though me and SO waited the 6 weeks to have sex (had a c-section), we've only had sex like 5 times. And the frustrating part is it's not on him. He doesn't see my body any different then he did when I was 40lbs lighter than I am now. I just can't stand being touched sexually. I love him and of course I still think he's attractive and I want to have sex...I do. But it just doesn't feel right to have sex anymore...and I don't mean in the physical sense. That's fine. It's just my brain :/ I try to avoid it at all costs.
I have no idea how to work this out...I'm on birth control, we have condoms, he's more than willing to take it slow because it hurts sometimes...but I just can't make myself feel like it's okay. I don't know if it's because I don't like how I feel about my body or what, but it sucks butthol  

Any advice?

watching. im 7 months pp and still nothing. my best friend is 14 months pp and still nothing.

It took me over 2 years to finally feel like getting really into sex again. We only had sex maybe 5 times in those 2 years, and it was always rushed, hurry up and get off me sex. I was in Mom mode and didn't want to be touched. Eventually kidlet didn't need so much attention and I focused more on myself, and my needs, wants and pleasure and got back into it. Then we decided to TTC and it was a horny free for all. Now I'm pregnant again and already dont want touched, he actually said the other day, guess we'll do it again in two years.  

I didn't have much of a sex drive to begin with but yeah, pretty sure the fact that I have a good 40lbs to lose doesn't make me feel any better  

Watching this! I'm at 14 months pp and its still gone. It feels like a chore. Honestly he's lucky if we have sex once every 2 weeks. I know he hates it. He's so patient with me. No matter how much I try I'm hardly ever in the mood.

Quoting BabyJsMama:" It took me over 2 years to finally feel like getting really into sex again. We only had sex maybe 5 times ... [snip!] ... Now I'm pregnant again and already dont want touched, he actually said the other day, guess we'll do it again in two years.  "

sorry...that kinda made me smile a bit lol
its just annoying because i just turned 20, and hes 19...and it seems like what should be "normal" for a couple our age just makes me uncomfortable and upset more than anything else

Watching 10 months pp. I have ABSOLUTELY no sex drive. It isn't fun and it isn't something I want to do. But in my case its driving a wedge between us. I hope it comes back soon! I used to love it!

Quoting justplainme93:" sorry...that kinda made me smile a bit lol its just annoying because i just turned 20, and hes 19...and ... [snip!] ... it seems like what should be "normal" for a couple our age just makes me uncomfortable and upset more than anything else"

As long as you're in mommy mode, its hard to get back into sexy mode. It takes time and a lot of patience from both of you.

Quoting BabyJsMama:" As long as you're in mommy mode, its hard to get back into sexy mode. It takes time and a lot of patience from both of you. "

Yay...something else that needs patience. Ugh lol Thanks though