Quoting Tori♥Landon!:" Personally, I would NOT file. I am talking from experience. If you think you will be very tight on money ... [snip!] ... son. Well as soon as he got a court order for child support, he went that day to file for visitation. I would just let it be. "This.
Quoting BeginTheRomance:" This. I am in the process of something similar. My daughter is now four and her biological father has ... [snip!] ... Also, when you sign the birth certificate make sure there is nothing about him being the father on there. Good luck. <3"
Quoting Leigha Jai:" see he already has a son and went though same thing with his first baby momma and once he found out it ... [snip!] ... y i dont know what to do. i can struggle and not have him apart of a lives or not and have him try and get my son from me."
Quoting BeginTheRomance:" I would figure out what is more important then. If you file for support, he is going to see your son ... [snip!] ... rights. He has to agree to that, though. I know it sucks, but that's why I had to hire someone to figure all this stuff out."
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Just because he pays, does not automatically guarantee him visitation rights. Those are two separate ... [snip!] ... even starts. Once paternity is established, all it takes is a court order and he can put himself on the birth certificate."
Quoting Tori♥Landon!:" They are two separate cases but what I mean is, for me anyways, my sons father decided to get visitation because he seen me trying to get child support."
Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" My ex did the same... he left when I was 7 months tho. Personally I wish I never told him about the ... [snip!] ... to keep him and have the baby... I saw no point in screwing him financially for 18 years because he was a smurffy boyfriend."me and the baby father were engaged and this baby was planned it was like it was a non planned pregnancy it was planned, and he said he make a mistake and cant handle the stress affter we already got pregnant and decided to go though with it.