Quoting Leigha Jai:" sorry i dont like being called selfish and i have tryed this whole pregnancy, even when he dont answer ... [snip!] ... told hes not gonna make the trip to see the birth and thats when i stoped telling him things, so i think i have tryed my best."
Men act differently than us during pregnancy. The baby isnt here yet so he doesnt owe it to you to talk to you. You are being selfish. I know how you are feeling. My ex tried to contact me while I was pregnant with my youngest, and every time I told him to smurf off... The one time that he saw me pregnant was when we were meeting our sons fathers, and he wanted to carry stuff for me and open doors and everything, and I was pissed. I KNOW how you feel. I didnt want him to be near the baby until he signed his rights over. But he washolding the baby while we were signing our rights away.
Give him a chance to be a father. If he doesnt, then its on him. But dont start out on not wanting him around because he wasnt around during the pregnancy.