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i have a friend like this and still complains shes unhappy and wants to tone up. im like girl you just had a baby and look amazing, almost like you never even gave birth

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gah, makes me want to slap them silly!

My best friend has 2 kids and she is soo skinny and pretty! I have 2 kids and feel like a fatass  

I'm jealous too. The worst thing about me is that I'm not even chubby. My arms, legs and face are bony as hell.....but I have this huge disgusting stomach and hips. I hate it so much.

I know the feeling. I thought i was looking pretty good for having 3 kids. Then i went on vacation and saw moms that look fantastic. Uhhhh, so frusterating.

I know people like this too, I shrank back down to being pretty tiny again after having the twins lucikly but I still have a good bit of loose skin on my belly that needs tightened that really bothers me. I'm hoping I can start working out more to get rid of my pooch.

Gah! Tell me about it! I have coworkers and family like this- I feel even worse when these same people have zero stretch marks. My DD is 14 mos and I have only lost a lil bit since I had her, and thats with work!

That WAS me after DD1. In fact after a year, I was even thinner than before I had her. Then after DS I was fat and couldn't lose it. And now after DD2 I'm even fatter.   I'm ashamed. I know if I just ate right and stuck to an excersize routine I could do it. But I'm just not motivated, I basically sit on my butt all day every day, taking care of the kids, feeding/changing/cleaning, and cleaning the house takes up at least 50% of my awake day and the other 50% I just want to relax while I can. I play tennis with my Dad once a week but it's not helped me lose any weight so far. I feel like craaaap. I can't even believe I've gotten to this point. I could stand to lose about70- 80 lbs.

I was skinnier 6 months after I had LO than I ever was in my adult life.  

Quoting SansBraceFace:" I was skinnier 6 months after I had LO than I ever was in my adult life.  "

That's how I was after DS1. I had PPP and couldn't eat for days. I loved my body while pregnant with DS2 because I looked so healthy.

Quoting SansBraceFace:" I was skinnier 6 months after I had LO than I ever was in my adult life.  "

Same. I'm almost 3 years PP with my third child and I'm skinnier than I was before I had kids.

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" Nothing upsets me more then when I see a girl who JUST had a baby and they are already skinny. WTF, seriously!? ... [snip!] ... belly was flat and my muffin top was gone. Some girls are just so damn lucky. JEALOUSY FILLS ME!     Phew, Rant over/  "

Don't worry. You're normal. I am 8.5 month PP and I still need to lose 15-20lbs and my thighs touch, I have stretchmarks and loose skin. (sigh) It's okay. I'm slowly getting more and more comfortable with my body. I still have my days, but I honestly don't mind my stretchmarks. The giant love handles, I could do without. ;)

I'm one those people who went right back to normal. I'm still not happy though, I'd love to be more toned!  
I don't think anyones ever really 100% happy with their body after a baby lol

Quoting Regina George ♡:" I'm one those people who went right back to normal. I'm still not happy though, I'd love to be more toned!   I don't think anyones ever really 100% happy with their body after a baby lol"

I'd have to agree.

While I went back to being skinny and flat tummy, I hated my body because my breasts were saggier and I had stretch marks on my inner thighs, no more short shorts even though my legs are long and amazing otherwise